So.....I'm in a bind. I was goin out with this girl and we went out for about 3 months and i broke up with her. And now she is goin out with sum1 else for about 3 months and i cant stand her boyfriend. But it turns out i still have very strong feelings towards her, but everytime i talk to her her boyfriend gets mad at her and me. I dont want to split them up because i think she is happy with him. But she told me that if she wasnt goin out with this person she would go out with me and she said she still has some feelings for me.........What Should I Do!!
2006-11-23 13:27:53 · 12 answers · asked by Napoleon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You broke up with Her. Now that She has Someone else You find You still have feelings for Her. If You want to be a stand up guy You should back off. If they break up, on their own, and You still feel the same way then talk to Her. Don't do anything that You wouldn't want done to You, just a good rule to live by.
2006-11-23 13:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off and let her current relationship play out. For one thing, you want her to come to you without any thought of "what could have happened with the other guy". Secondly, if she still has strong enough feelings for you, she'll grow weary of the new guy and come back to you. Let her know you want her to be happy and won't do anything to jeopardize what she wants. Then go on with your life. If she comes back you'll know it's of her own free will. In any case, there's really nothing you CAN do. It's her decision.
2006-11-23 21:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Grace Under Fire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you end a relationship with someone it is for a specific reason not just something you do on a whim. You have to realize that you have to live with your actions now and let her move on and see where it goes with this new guy in her life. Don't you think you owe her that much since you are the one that ended it in the first place?
2006-11-23 21:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by rhythmoftheblues 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you and this girl should go back out. If she's in a relationship and she's telling you she still has feelings for you then she shouldn't be with that other guy. Just go to dinner with her, and you guys need to talk about your feeling toward eachother.
2006-11-23 21:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You have told her how you feel. The next move is up to her. If she hasn't already dumped the boy.......she isn't going to. Also, remember girls like drama & LOVE boys fighting over them. It makes them feel special.
Dont put your life on hold for someone who isn't willing to do the same for you.
Good luck
2006-11-23 21:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like shes just keeping you on the rebound. Shes clearly not worth your time !
2006-11-23 21:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you ask her to go out with you again, please write down on paper what went wrong the first time round, honestly.
ask yourself if you can handle it 2nd time round better. and write it down how you can do it.
then ask her to be your gf and to drop the other guy.
keep that piece of paper, it will come in handy cos history repeats itself.
2006-11-23 21:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by lsl4x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really wants to be with you, she will break up with the other guy first so you won't have to be in the middle.
2006-11-23 21:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by poisonette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be, who knows later on iof things dont work out for her, she Will be back with you i'm sure
2006-11-23 21:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE, read what you have written, I think you may have answered your own question..
2006-11-25 19:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋