I love my boyfriend so much he saids he loves me but how do I know for a fact that he really loves me I mean he always saids he loves me and sometimes show me but he the type of quy not to open up to enybody how do I get him to trust me that its okay?
2006-11-23 13:25:34 · 5 answers · asked by hclover21 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Best way to get someone to trust you is to lead by example.
You must learn to trust him & once he sees that he will eventually open up to you, but remember DON'T push....that
just makes you a nosey girlfriend......not a caring one.
Say things to him like.......it seems like you are having a bad day...
if there is anything I can do let me know. I am always here for you and let it go. Dont keep bringing it up......give him space, but still show that you care. And NEVER talk to your friends about .personal things he tells you because it will back fire in
your face.
2006-11-23 13:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a closed person, you will just have to wait and don't push him TOO much. Keep being honest and open with him and he should eventually open up. Maybe if you mention casually that you are there for him or that you wish he would be a little more open with his feelings that would work.
I am a pretty closed person with my emotions...it happens when someone is afraid of getting hurt usually. As I said, though, don't push too much but try to see if he is eventually opens up more after you mention something. If not you might have to have a talk. That's what my guy had to do with me, and now I express myself all the time because I know it is important to him and I also trust him because he put his heart out to me and told me how he felt about me and how it made him feel when I didn't say some sentimental things to him.
Also, if he says he loves you, you should believe him. I know that sometimes people lie about these kind of things, but not usually. It seems like maybe you are a bit insecure...don't be!!
2006-11-23 21:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't.....If he said he loves you, why do you want to make him prove it to you?
If he doesn't tell everyone his business, there is nothing wrong with that...He told you he does..It seems you have more on an trust and insecurity problem then he does...Leave it at that and enjoy the time together......Good luck.
2006-11-23 21:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by Frank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your boyfriend he should trust you. And if you have to ask people you don't know if he loves you then you need to talk to him about ya'lls relationship.
2006-11-23 21:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
test em...i dont know how... but put em to the test you know what im sayin?
2006-11-23 21:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋