I have been dating this girl for a while now and I haven't spoken to her since last Saturday and out of the blue she calls me upon Wednesday, to ask me if her and her girl friends can come over and use my House to have a little small get together. She expects me to cook and entertain too. I dont know what her intentions are with me. Is she using me for my house or does she have real feelings for me. How do you think i should find out...........my plan is to flirt with her friends...............some one give me a better anwser before i make a fool out of myself.
2006-11-23 13:05:54 · 12 answers · asked by taye... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has no intentions with you
She's not using you...
You gave her the idea you want this ...
People don't just expect you to entertain and cook...
Come on now, take some responsibility.
Now is the time to check and see if your
backbone is still there!!!!!
Yes, you are going to make a fool of yourself....
So, stop and think, before you take another step.
You want this girl..you just don't know how to get her.
Stop me if I'm off track......
Go ahead and cook, entertain...it might even help...
But first of all let her know the reason you are willing to do so.
The reason being...You really care about her!
What have you got to lose??
Standing straight up and saying something
has to be better than making a fool out of yourself
and maybe embarrassing her to boot.
So get up some courage and put on your best game face.
Go in for the touch down...
You can't win if you don't play!
2006-11-23 13:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and let him lead. By making out I'm not entirely sure I know what you mean. It is something different to everyone. Some people take it to mean deep kissing. Others label it deep kissing and petting. And some people mean just kissing romantically. I'm going to guess that you mean the last. If I'm guessing wrong, then don't worry. It'll just happen naturally and he will guide you. Otherwise- He won't expect you to be a pro. There is no real guide to kissing. You need to just do it and then talk together about what both of you like. For the first couple of times until you really get to know each other, there are some guidelines 1. Don't "eat" him- Stick to the lips. Having slobber all over your face is not romantic. 2. Keep it simple- Move your lips a some, but don't try to do anything complicated. And keep your tongue in check. 3. Feel what hes doing with his lips- Take cues from what he is doing. Don't just go off and do something that he is not into or is not participating in. 4. Breathe- Yes, it is ok to breath while kissing. If you stop (and lots of people do), it is not nearly as enjoyable. 5. Close the Eyes- Especially at first, many people feel uncomfortable with open eyed kissing. 6. Enjoy it- If you enjoy it and he enjoys it that is all that matters!
2016-03-29 07:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Bud thisis quite the predicament. To be she sounds like just some girl using you but you never know. tell her if its her party she can cook and do all the entertaining and all the other ****.. if she has a problem with it than she is using you....
Good luck hun
2006-11-23 13:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by Jack Daniels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is just using you for your place. I dont know if flirting with her friends is going to make it any better, maybe just approach her if she has feelings or she just wants to be friends or what. If she tells you that she just wants to be friends you know she is using you!!! Dont let this girl use you.
2006-11-23 13:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your going to make a fool out of yourself if you let her use your house for her and her friends. I'm shocked that she would have the nerve too even suggest this.She sounds as though, she is out for herself.You already know the answer to this! Don't let it happen. Cocoa
2006-11-23 13:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well right now it seems like shes using you for a house...but ask her if she wants to hang out, just the too of you..If she does like you she will have no delay in saying yes! :)
2006-11-23 13:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by Tracey Lee ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1) ask to go 2 her place. 2) make her do more things for you. 3) ask her out to dinner + then "forget ur wallet" 4) ask her 5) ask her friends.good luck
2006-11-23 13:08:23 · answer #7 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't flirt with her friends, that would complicate things. Just ask her what her feelings are towards you.
2006-11-23 13:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go ahead and let her come. mayb u can get some alone time and ask her wuts up.
2006-11-23 13:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by Dude get a life! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is just using you. order pizza and buy some beer. she'll leave you alone after that.
2006-11-23 13:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋