My friend sleeps(not sex) with her b/f some nights. Should she be worried he's gonna feel her up while she sleeps?? Can She trust him?? I am worried. She was raped b4 and now, I will feel like it's my fault if it happens again. Will he abuse her trust??
Should I tell her I am worried??
Should I tell her not to. He's a great person everywhere he goes. Is it ok to worry??
Today is a bad day for her. Do you think he will understand or take advantage of the fact that she is distraught?? She loves him and he loves her, but he seems to like her more. Is that bad??
2006-11-23 12:59:02 · 3 answers · asked by arabella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would a b/f of 1.5 years rape his g/f?? I am a little worried about her judgment cuz she is very upset. 1 yr ago, 13 people she knew died. Do you think it will cloud her judgement??
2006-11-23 13:00:43 · update #1
I am having trouble typing 2day. Sorry for the errors.
2006-11-23 13:01:13 · update #2
You know, boyfriends and girlfriends have sexual relationships with one another and if your friend is worried that something sexual might happen perhaps she is not ready to be in a relationship with a guy right now. It's not fair for both parties to take on the responsibility of the past that has happened to her, it was awful but her current bf wasn't to blame for it. Ask her if she wants a sexual relationship with her bf and if the answer is no perhaps she needs to cool things off and not sleep over in the first place.
2006-11-23 15:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Craiova 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough question. if her b/f loves her he will also respect her and not take advantage of her when she is sleeping. plus think about it this way she is the one who got raped im sure she felt uncomfertable around men for a long while after that. so if she feels comfertable with sleeping(not sex) with her b/f then i would let her do w/e she wants. unless you think he is only in the relationship to get sex out of her. but if hes waited a year and a half just to have sex with her and hasnt done ne thing yet im sure hes not going to untill she says he can.
2006-11-23 13:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her how you feel.
2006-11-23 13:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋