we have been dating for about 1 month and 2 weeks and i love him alot we go to different schools but we see each other at church and if we have to haul hay, but i don't know if he really loves me like he says he does, he says when we get out of collage we are going to move to texas and farm and stuff, but i don't just don't know and i feel like he has my heart in his hands. plz help me
2006-11-23 12:58:50 · 12 answers · asked by leelandrew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can't go on worrying whether he loves you or not, girl!
trust his word until you get some evidence he is cheating or something. if he didn't love you then he wouldn't tell you and he wouldn't be saying all these plans for the future.
2006-11-23 13:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by Whatevahh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart.
You are obviously still at school. You have known him for 1 month. During that month, you have spent more time away from each other than together. You can not possibly say you love him. You don't even know each other. I have been married for 32 years and at times my wife and i don't even know each other. It can sometimes take years before a couple realy know each other and until that happens you can not love some one you don't know. It feels like love, but darling, you don't know what love is yet. You are at this stage just INFATUATED. To you he is the only person in your life. You feel you cant stand to be away from him. You do every thing in your power to be with him. Darling, i have been there. Your boy friend is probably doing everything right at this stage. Just wait and see if he contacts you when you move. That will tell the truth about how you both feel for each other.
Loza
2006-11-23 21:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by Loza W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The newness of the relationship may make you feel like you are in love, but more than likely you are in the honeymoon phase. Because it's only been a month and 2 weeks, more than likely you haven't had any real arguments to test the love's strength. Give it some more time, so you will know without a doubt that it's love and won't have to ask for any one's opinion...good luck.
2006-11-23 21:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by poisonette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie.....after a month you are still in the "honeymoon" faze.
Of course, you THINK you love him & you FEEEL like you love him, but the truth is you dont really know him. Take a deep breathe and step back.... take some time...if you two are really in love then it will all work out. Dont go getting your pretty little head all worked up over some boy after just a month & a half.
Good luck.
2006-11-23 21:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well one thing u 2 have been dating for not that long. And another thing...it may take some time with the relationship. You really have to be dating for a long time to feel like he really loves you and has his heart to give you and for you to give him the same back.
But Idk what to say other wise. it really deals with how he feels when he says "i love you" and how he says it. You just got to listen more carefully.
2006-11-23 21:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes just rushing into a relationship thinking ahead of the game. Tell him you need time to think about it.
gl
2006-11-23 21:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by stargirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...Does he act like he loves you? I mean you too don't see eachother to often and girls tend to fall in love easier than guys. Next time you say I Love you, look into his eyes and see how he reacts when he says it back. Eyes tell everything. :)
2006-11-23 21:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by Tracey Lee ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest you just slow down and let time play out because time tells all...you will know soon enough just take it for what its worth now...if it doesnt change then great you'll have the answer you're lookin for
2006-11-23 21:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by ELIZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE ONLY WAY YOU WOULD KNOW IF HE LOVES YOU...WHEN HE TELLS YOU HE LOVES YOU AGAIN...ASK HIM WELL "WELL HOW DO I KNOW THAT" AND MAYBE YOU WILL FIND YOUR ANSWER THAT WAY!!!
2006-11-23 21:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will only tell...
2006-11-23 21:01:23 · answer #10 · answered by Bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋