my bf and i have conflicts very frequently. No doubt is a small matter or big issue.. but most of the time is becoz of his jealousy, suspicious act and nonsense.(he likes to accuse me!!). He debate with me and push me to my limit and when i got nothing to say or choose to remain silent, he said that im giving him attitude and he will become more agressive (in terms of speech) Isit bcoz of the age gap? im 20 and he is 21 and i think i deserve someone who is better then him. I loves him and i dont wan to break up. Ppl ard me are telling me to leave him. =( but still, its all up to me to decide. Now, unless i put a stop here to prevent myself from being hurt by him again or, .. i really dont wana break.. i do love him.. help me pls..
2006-11-23 12:58:08 · 4 answers · asked by Its me! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Believe me when I say this...he will never change. The reason why he behaves this way to you is because it makes him feel in charge and in control. It's an ego boost to bully you because he knows you will never leave him no matter how nasty he is to you. You need to think about what your friends are saying very carefully and make a decision as a grown woman on how you want to be treated and respected because he will *never* change.
2006-11-23 15:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by Craiova 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really want my opinion, u should leave him because sounds like he is gonna hit u next time. Tha isnt the way we treat the ppl we luv.
2006-11-23 21:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by badboy22bs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time you get into a argument stand up and tell him to lisin to u
2006-11-23 21:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by crazi8red 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it
2006-11-23 21:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anthony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋