(He is 34, Im 25) He delivered to my work and flirted with me for 10 months, asking if I was "happy" and If I had kids and ever wanted any, before we even went out. (3 times now) He said he doesnt want a girlfriend, or to marry till hes 65, but everything else was just nuts.
I tend to think he wants the no strings because he has "erectile dysfunction"
*Things he said*
When you get pregnant, your boobs will get bigger(who says that?!
You should go to sleep after work to be on my schedule
You should move closer so I can see you more often
You deserve someone who can give you sex everyday (He can't)
Showed me family photos and talks about his family
Asks how my mom is
Showed my picture to his friends
You should know my voice by now
Why didnt you answer your phone?
I don't know if Im worth it (when we were talking of sex)
called me "his" roxy ( my name)
Acts like hes not good enough for me, not successful enough
SO does he EVER want strings or not (In his life, not w me
2006-11-23 12:55:16 · 11 answers · asked by roxy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the real question is what is it that you want i mean r u cool with a no string relationship and do you actually want something more serious. if you do you need to let him know that even though he has an erection problem that your willing to work with him and find other means of sexually arousal that is if its not that big of a deal for you also let him know that relationships arent solely based on sex and if you guys care about eachother you should be willing to make some kind of step towards commitment if not b his roxy
2006-11-23 13:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by monieluv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When a man says "no strings" that means NO STRINGS, and we only have to say it once, just like No means NO to women. This means whether he sometimes says he "loves" you or that his life isn't "complete" without you, etc. No strings does not change because of sex, either. It is a permanent status until it is changed by HIM, and agreed upon by YOU. Many men now do not want marriage, or want to meet many more women before committing because of so many problems in marriages, and losing their property in divorce. Listen to the man, he's being honest. Maybe the future will bring something different.....maybe it won't. Some never, ever want to marry again as they see no advantage to it, especially if they already have children. Often marriage has more liability to men than benefits.
2016-03-29 07:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants no strings, then believe him. I had a best friend with benefits. We were together 24/7 but we were not "attached." Everyone that saw us together thought we would be together. 3 years of being with him all the time and he turns around and says "I met a girl I want to pursue." I was crushed because I thought we were going somewhere...
But apparently, regardless of how close we were to each other, he kept reminding me that there were no strings...
2006-11-23 12:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he doesnt know what he wants. Just be careful so you dont get hurt. To me doesnt seem to be the right guy. The right guy will come along and you wont have to ask about strings you will both know. Good Luck!!
2006-11-23 13:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by betty boop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he most likely is a little shy because of is ed so he doesnt think that hes good enough for you or that you might want more that he cant give you. i believe that he wants to be more involved in his life and vice versa. but he is so nervice that you will leave him for someone younger that does not have ed. so i would talk to him more and let him no that even though he has ed you still want to be with him and you not going to leave him for someone else anytime soon.
2006-11-23 13:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you for a booty call. You have to do all the work in order to see him. You have to change your schedule. and move to suit him. That doesn't sound like love, it sounds like manipulation. He's not all shy and stuff to give you personal info about him. Look at actions, not words. He's not doing anything, he wants you to do it all.
2006-11-23 13:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what it seems is like he is very in secured of himself, it seems like he is afraid of rejection so he "acts" like he is in control (which obviously he is not), so...if you want anything with him you have to be patience and give him some space, until he feels comfortable enough to let everything take its course.
Well, that's just my thought.
2006-11-23 13:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by fun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have a nutt case hun! i just call a spade a spade!
REAL men dont act like that,are you begging him for sex everynight? if so maybe hes just bored with you.but mainly INSECURE HE IS
2006-11-23 13:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not look for another one? who wants somebody with erectile dysfunction....? get out from your shell and explore........
2006-11-23 12:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by Adele 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run as fast as you can away from him
2006-11-23 12:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋