My bf and I are living in an apartement. He is not showing any sign of affections, neither signs of a man who s cheating, because he is in the house all the time. I always know where is going and stuff, but he has his own problems, and i don't know if those problems are reacting over him. I am asking myself if it is me doing something wrong. Most of the time when i talk to him he raises his voice, not too loud but like someone who has nerves ready to explode. anyways, what those that mean!!!?? please help!
2006-11-23 12:51:11 · 22 answers · asked by tinounous16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long have you been together, and living together? Did this just start, or has it been an ongoing problem? I would ask him what's going on and suggest counseling if it's bad enough to start affecting your everyday lives! Good luck!
2006-11-23 12:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by ladyw900ldriver 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you two are living together then his problems should be your problems. What you need to do is tell him that you notice something is wrong and that you hate to see him sad....is there anything you can do to help.
Also, double check on the cheating......you cant know everything.
I once had a friend who was dating a married guy......apparently this married guy just "worked alot"........so the wife thought and since he a cell phone she could ALWAYS call him and the "mistress" would just be quiet in the background. Not saying your man is cheating, but if he is COMPLETE unaffectionate you might not want to rule it out.
2006-11-23 12:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-16 10:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication, is the key to get to the bottom of this, if you and your bf,sit down and talk it out, maybe you will know from there, don't just draw your own conclusions, we can do that all day long. Obviously something is wrong, talk to him, Ask a direct question, for a direct answer.!..Good Luck!
2006-11-23 12:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some mental space until he is ready to talk. As females we always want to know what our bf is thinking about, but unlike women, men don't want to talk their way through problems, they like to try and figure them out themselves. Let him know that you are there for him when he needs you, but leave it at that, don't pressure him to talk right then. When he feels confident that he has figured out a solution or realizes that he might need some help, he will come to you and appreciate you more.
2006-11-23 12:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by poisonette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do u mean not too loud but like someone with nerves ready to explore. loud is loud especially if he is someone that never done that before. this sounds pretty serious to me, u should try talkin to him more her to some who u trust that could communicate with him better. u never know he can b hurting or something try harder to reach out to him. that also can b signs of cheating too, annoyance.don't wait until it gets worst like he starts hitting u or something. good luck.
2006-11-23 13:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably means that he just needs some alone time. As much as he likes you, he still needs his independence. Since you two live together this is difficult. If I were you, give your man some space and go out with the ladies or do an overnight stay with a family member to give him some much needed space.
2006-11-23 12:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by wonder girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im no expert but it sounds like he is just kind of bored with seeing you all the time (not to be rude) Maybe you should move out or try not spending so much time together. Also maybe he is really stressed about something...like work for example.Try talking to him about it.
2006-11-23 12:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by Tracey Lee ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't know what problems he is having then you need to find out by asking him. if he is not willing to tell you, he is holding something back that needs to come out anyways.
yall need to like go do something, like fun to maybe soften his nerves some. see if that helps any
2006-11-23 12:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by Whatevahh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him evaluated for depression. Depression is not being sad, but being overwhelmed and unable to make decisions. Many men act angry when they feel trapped like that.
2006-11-23 12:54:14 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋