I asked this girl out by a letter and idunno yet the answer..i have this 50% feeling that she likes me and 50% that she does not like me...
I feel sad right now bcoz i gave her the letter first thing in the morning and she didn't give me her answer at lunch...
If she reject me..wut shall i do!
i had been rejected so many times...
if this one says no...
ill never look for another girl again and stay single..4ever!
2006-11-23 12:50:11 · 14 answers · asked by ^_^' 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aww dont worry about that .. if she does reject you then shes not the right one ... love will come your way i know it! 'cause i was the same way lol i thought i was completely hopeless for me to find love 'cause i only had like 3 boyfriends that only lasted a week lol i didnt have any luck with guys ... but with a little waiting i've found a wonderful boyfriend that i've been dating for 10 monthes now!
my advice to you is, if she does reject you dont fret .. just get more social with girls ... dont try to get in a relationship right away, just kinda look at what kind of girl you are looking for, whats out there and make some new friends ^_^ 'cause if you rush into love it will only hurt ..
take things slow and enjoy life!
you wont be single for long
hope my advice helped ya out some
2006-11-23 13:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their own unique comfort zone. And this comfort zone of yours is interesting because it sets you away from a full frontal rejection. Yours is not totally uncommon. But unique enough to attract a certain kind of girl. One who understands the feelings of another and how even something as trivial as a "no answer" to a date, can feel devastating to the asker.
I think your intelligent enough to know that this long time between delivery and the answer, usually means she is apprehensive towards telling you no. To most this would be an "Oh Well" situation, but, to me it shows promise. Guess what? You just found a girl with the same comfort zone as you! Don't let this one get away too easily. I know to be rejected sucks, but if she connects with you on this one area, how many more areas do you think she may have in common, I'm thinking, maybe allot. Good Luck Dude!
2006-11-23 13:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt you'll b single 4 ever. So don't sweat it if she says yes then that's GREAT but if she says no then don't worry about it and find someone who luvs u 4 u and don't just date someone 2 date u should date b/c u like the person and posibly l8r luv them but even if u do like someone enough to fall 4 them even then it might not work out basically I'm trying to say that u have all the time in the world to experience the dating world and most of the time it's not all it's cracked up 2 b and 9 times out of ten u get heart broken but there is always good that comes out of it life lessons 4 example. Once u get ur heart broken u learn 2 b cautious and sometimes that's not always good. I could probably ramble on 4 ever on the pros and cons of luv but it's u who knows ur ready and if she doesn't like u 4 u then forget her she doesn't deserve u ne how unless ur one of those obsessive guys. JK!! lol!!! Well GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-11-23 13:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by jamsterz10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't like you, life goes on! But you said yourself 50% of you thinks she DOES like you back! Thats better than nothing. Its always worth the risk if you really feel that strongly about someone, in my opinion.
I'm not sure the letter was the best way to go- it shows a lack of confidence that she'd see if you talked to her in person instead. Be confident- even if you ARE shy... from personal experience, girls are attracted to the confident guys, even if they are insensitive jerks or a little lacking in the looks department.
2006-11-23 12:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by sahariah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 11:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No confidence at all. Man, if you ain't got confidence and trust in yourself and what you did, then you ain't got nothin'. If she rejects ya, then go at another girl or somethin'. And if you stay single 4 a long time, then you ain't gon have all that good of a life expierience, as you gon be afraid of the ladies...
2006-11-23 12:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you get rejected the better your chances get. Because when you get rejected you learn not to do that same stupid stuff again. Getting rejected is a part of life for some of us.
2006-11-23 12:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just needs to thnk about it. Don't lose hope just yet... it sounds like there is more going on than just a girl. Remeber that the right person is out there somewhere. sometimes all a person needs is a little encouragement, like a smile. :)
2006-11-23 12:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by DIRI-83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the girls who rejected you is not for you. God knows what is for you. So don't be sad or give up if many girls rejected you because i believe that someday you will found your true love... Anyway, good luck for you and God bless...
2006-11-23 13:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kid ur maaad stupid WTF a letter you gon have to grow sum balls sooner or lata.and to tell u the truth the onli reason she rejected u waz probably because dat letta gurlz dont like dat maaan they like face to face u kno they like dominant guyz not sum lil gurl sorry for being so harsh but this is sposed to help ya and it will if you just do it
2006-11-23 13:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by drzstuntman_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋