He broke up with me this past tuesday. two of our friends told me that he was going to break up with me that afternoon. after i got home i got a text message from him asking if i wanted to meet him somewhere and talk, but i said no. all he did was text me back and forth. he didn't even act like a guy should and either come to me and tell me his self or at least talk to me on the phone. it really makes me mad because nothing was wrong between us. we never fought with each other and he told me how he loved me all the time and how pretty i was. We only dated for 3 months, but i still felt like he was different than all the other guys i dated. i was told that he broke up with me b/c there is a girl at his work that he liked before he met me and he thought he didn't have a chance with her but apparently she likes him now, and he dumped me for her. i miss him so much right now b/c i'm used to seeing him almost every day and now i don't see him at all. what do i do now? thanks.
2006-11-23 12:45:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be the bigger person here... Drop him, stop pining over him and MOVE ON. Its his mistake, he never really loved you if he could just drop you like a bad habit. Its better for you that it happend this way. You can have your little moment to cry, but then from now on everytime you see him, act like it doesn't bother you. Because then he will see that it doesnt bother you. You are better off with out him. Atleast it happened early so you dont have so much time invested in bring in more hurt. I'm not saying that its not going to hurt, but there is someone better out there for you. Some one that will worship the ground you walk upon.
2006-11-23 12:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by **baby~doll** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going through its crazy when a guy picks up and leaves when you thought everything was perfect. When my boyfriend of ten months broke up to go out with a girl he worked with I was completely lost and put in a place I had never been before. For the first time in my life I felt truly alone. His mom gave me the best advice she said to keep my heart hands and mind busy and time will fly before your eyes. I went and changed things I dyed and grew out my hair. I also lost weight and changed the way I dressed and actually started having fun in high school. You should hang out with your friends and do the stuff you LOVE to do. Don't ever blame yourself for him leaving he is a jerk and will one day realize what he has lost. Also don't rush into a new relationship take time to heal. Good luck I hope this helps a little.
2006-11-23 12:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by Casandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I 'no how u feel. I reckone this is one of the toughest moments in your life. However reality is one of the hardest things to accept. Much as u are so much into him, he isn't the one 4 u. It is high time u spread ur net as further as u can and search for another guy. Some one who wont turn away from u no matter what. Dont "impose" yourself on him especially if he doesn't like/love u any more. Good thing is that u girls are not like us boys, it is so easy 4 u to meet some one.
I 'no it isn't gonna be any fun, it won't be any easier 4 u but u have to move on.
2006-11-23 12:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by badboy22bs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then accept the fact that he tried to tell you in person,but your the one that said no.If he did leave you for another woman,he did all he could to tell you,you know there's nothing wrong with you and should now go find someone else to be with.That will help you get over him.It's not your fault it didn't work out between the two of you,but it is your fault he couldn't tell you to your face.Based by what you just wrote in your question.
2006-11-23 12:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you ought to ask strangers if the dating ought to be over as a consequence of an incident that occurred 5 months in the past, then I wouldnt even say your adulthood point is at a place the place try to be dating. Its no longer the tip of the worldwide one way or yet another. Do what makes you happy and not loopy.
2016-10-17 11:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you girl. All you can do is swallow it and move on. It's his lose not yours. He didn't know what he had. Maybe that girl he is with wont treat him right and he will craw back to you but don't think that way he doesn't deserve a special person like you anyway I hope you get through this.
2006-11-23 13:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the term "first love never dies " applies to this.
Good thing he broke up with you earlier, rather than having to divorce you after you're both married, move on. Go out with your girl friends just to forget him by.
2006-11-23 12:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by jon_yao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta get over it. Don't dwell on the past, go on to the future, and think What's Next. Good Luck & God Bless.
2006-11-23 12:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Cut him out cold turkey and show him that you can find another. He is being goofy and I don't think you want to mess around with that. Trust me, you can do better.
2006-11-23 12:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that hard. realy all u can do is move on. he is a jerk for leaving but maybe he wasn't happy with the relationship. don't worry u will find that true love someday. maybe they are right next to u and u didn't even notice.
2006-11-23 12:49:38 · answer #10 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋