This girl who is a year younger, and a freshman at my college, and also works out at my gym, keeps staring at me at both my college, and when I'm on the courts playing some b-ball. I asked my friend if he knew her, and he told me her name. I looked on myspace and she has a boyfriend. I know I'm not imagining this, I study martial arts, and have a very keen sense of my surroundings. Isn't it wrong to state at me when she has a boyfriend, couldn't that be taken the wrong way? Do I just keep ignoring it?
2006-11-23 12:41:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually many people don't know when they are being stared at. My periphial sense allows me to focus in on objects while not looking at them much more than other people.
I said that because others have said I might be imagining it.
2006-11-23 12:54:05 · update #1
she probably thinks your cute
I'm guilty of staring and thinking guys are cute and have a boyfriend I love at the same time.
this girl might be thinking of dumping her boyfriend, i dnt know. but if you're interested in her, i would still talk to her anyways so you can see.
2006-11-23 12:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by Whatevahh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jett -
She might just think you are HOT!!!! She might think you look like somebody she knows. She might like you. If she has a boyfriend then you dont want to do anything because that wouldnt be cool, but if she is always staring at you then you should let her know that you notice. Walk past her and say
hey do I know you?? I saw you looking at me and I thought maybe I knew you or something like that. That is a nice way
to "call her" on her starring. Other than that I would just ignore her........although, that can be a little difficult.
Good luck.
2006-11-23 12:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude.....studying martial arts doesnt mean crap. How about sticking to the point. People KNOW when theyre being stared at.
Either change gyms or have the balls to approach her and tell her youd appreciate her not staring at you because youre certain her boyfriend wouldnt like to know where her eyes are wandering to.
And if you think she is worth having dude, remember- SHE HAS WANDERING EYES! If she does it to him, she will do it with you.
AND ALOT OF FEMALES do this for one reason and one reason only- they enjoy causing strife.
I was in radio shack years back and this girl came in with her boyfriend and didnt just look at me, she gave me the
"Hehehe Im coy but ready to **** if you wanna" look while biting her lip.
GOD will you listen to this guy? OOOOH Im special I have advanced sense of perception because I study wang chong on my dong. Youre an idiot dude. MOST PEOPLE know that theyre being stared at because its a PREDATORY response. Idiot.
2006-11-23 12:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by . S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This could mean she is interested, however if you fall for her it could be bad. She has a boyfriend so she either could be leading you into a trap to get attention, or maybe wants to be with you without leaving her boyfriend. Sounds fishy to me but I'm sure you will do the right thing.
2016-03-29 07:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep ignoring it or ask her whats up with the staring!
2006-11-23 12:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by *Sexy-Love* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's allowed to look as long as she doesn't touch. What's the problem? Guys look all the time, girls can too!
2006-11-23 12:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by party_pam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thinking dumping him for you, or maybe thinking you've a better package than her current BF, or maybe wondering why does her BF doesn't go to GYM, maybe he is somewhat gay?
2006-11-23 12:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by jon_yao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
catch her in the act and ask about it. she prolly wouldn't make a great gf though since she has been lookng at you with her current boyfriend
2006-11-23 12:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by pat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she is a carpet muncher and your rug looks tasty
2006-11-23 12:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Randy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is ready for a change...
2006-11-23 12:46:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋