we split 3 years ago now but i still really love and all i think about is him and i just carnt move on everytime i try 2move on all i think about is him i still speak 2 him and i just dont know how 2 going bout telling him how i feel he has a gf aswell but he doesnt c her much i just want him 2 know i still love him and would be gratefull if we could try again but how do i tell him that?
2006-11-23 11:49:47 · 15 answers · asked by leanna s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww... you sound like ur really miserable. I know just how you feel. It depends on what caused the break up to begin with, before you get back with him, make sure what happened the first time will never repeat it self, and make sure that he shares the same feelings that you do, and I know youre heart will tell you that! I wish you good luck.
2006-11-23 11:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by Veekeey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it exactly as you are telling us, do not be too disapointed if you get turned down, but if you still love him you must give it a go before he marries someone. Try to remember the reasons why you split will the same problems be there, are you looking at him through rose coloured glasses. If you still speak to him casually ask him if he misses you as you still think of him and see what his response is before you say a lot more. Good luck to you I hope it works out.
2006-11-23 11:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey u should wait and c what happends with him and his girlfriend first because this is how the whole girl drama thing starts BUT if u feel in your heart he's the 1 and that's it 4 u then tell him soon because u could lose him forever I hope everything works out 4 u Good Luck
2006-11-23 11:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by lost in translation. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me, please: Any effort we make to try to make our lives right again is important because we learn one of two things from it: (1) that it can be done and we gain the benefits of doing it, or (2) that adjustment or change cannot be made, and we must move on and place it all behind us as a learning experience. The big problem is not with any of this. The problem is when we say to hell with it and toss our hands in the air and act helpless. That is when we do a disconnect and really hurt ourselves. I would encourage you to try to make the best of this situation in any way you humanly can, and to also be smart enough to recognize and stop if you should eventually meet a final roadblock. But give it everything you have in you to give and if it is meant to be, you will have it. If not, please gently put it behind you and keep going.
2006-11-23 12:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "term" is over girl! Why dont u accept the reality and move on! Besides, he is seeing some one else! Some one who presumably treats him better than u did. The chance came your way but u let it go. There are heaps of men out there! Go get yourself some one who isn't in a relationship. What guarrantee are u gonna give him that u are better than his gf and that u won't turn a way from him the second time?? Think about that and make a decision!
2006-11-23 12:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by badboy22bs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DONT try to pressure him into getting back together or breaking up with his present gf...let him know that you still have feelings for him but try not to seem like you necessarily want him to end his relationship (even though im sure you do)..if he wants you and not her he'll come back, but if he doesnt, then thats his choice and try to respect that
2006-11-23 11:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by baronbabec14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him but theres a chance he loves his girlfriend and it all depends on the reason yall broke up. if you broke up with him it might have hurt him alot worse then you think and he doesnt want to go through all of that again and if he broke up with you there had to be a reason. hes not the only guy in this world theres plenty of others try going out more often and you might just find one your looking for!!
2006-11-23 11:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by raelynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just out rigjht tell him, put all youre cards on the table. no holding back. he has a girlfriend but hes not married so go for it.atleast you will know what the deal is, if its not possible and he dosent feel the same,then you will know to get on with your life.good luck!!
2006-11-23 11:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try making small talk first, find out if he is happy or not with the new g/f. If he isn't then tell him that you still having feelings for him. If he is happy with her, then your going to have to waite til they are no longer happy and are not seeing each other anymore.
2006-11-23 11:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by sf43812 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keeps telling you he desires to be friends? he's not taking you back, he's using you. he's getting what he needs with out having to make a dedication. in case you nonetheless choose him back this poses a situation. human beings usually break up for a reason. and that they could usually stay that way. end giving him what he needs and flow on. you will not get him (and you do not choose him) back!
2016-10-13 00:07:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋