I have hooked up with this guys twice about a month apart and we text or whatever now and then and we talk about hanging out, we both got out of serious relationship within the past year and things are very casual, I do not even know if we are dating, and niether one of us is exclusivly talking to the other, but I asked if he wanted to go to my copany christmas party (very formal) and he said ok. In the future I would like for us to have a relationship, but I do not know how to go about this. He is very busy and so am I and when I get a chance to hang out and he cant I think I take it too personally. But all we do when we are together is smile, And I really miss that in life. What should I do? Are we seeing each other? Ahhh help.
2006-11-23 11:39:39 · 7 answers · asked by dontknow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why dont you just ask him? dont be afraid too. just do it, and ull be happy you did.
2006-11-23 11:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by M.O.B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would simply ask him how he feels about you. Wait for the right moment and you will know instinctively when that moment will be. Maybe after a toast at the Christmas party....or after the meal you ask to take a walk....or on the ride home....or after a great moment where you have just shared a laugh or a story about ones experience. You can simply ask...or just tell him how you feel. I believe the main problem in any relationship is conversation. Talking to one another is so important. It completely leaves out the "guess" work. I hope this works out for you, knowing someone that makes you smile is a great thing. But remember, there will be others that can make you smile too, so if this doesn't work out they way you want, stay friends, if possible and look for the one that not only makes you smile, but makes you weak in the knees too. :-)
2006-11-23 19:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by megabites42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think this is the only guy in the world that can make you happy then you need to re-focus on what your great qualities are. Stop thinking this is the only guy for you. You're better than that and I'm sure there are more than a few guys that you already know that feel the same way. Get out there and start having some fun......
2006-11-23 19:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont assume that you guys are together, because we all know what that can do. assume = bad news. Just play it as cool as possible and you will be able to tell if he is really in to you or not. If a guy likes you, i mean really LIKES you, he wont be able to get enough of you. He will make it clear he likes you. Just make sure that you are open to his advances and arnt shuting him down. Make sure he feels comfortable around you. If all else fails, just ask him. What the worst he can say? no
2006-11-23 19:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by missskirts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set things up in advance and ask him if you 2 should be dating. Sounds like he would say yes.
2006-11-23 19:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by pat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like simply friends with benifits. I don't see any sparks from what you said
2006-11-23 19:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him.
2006-11-23 19:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋