I would just like to put a timeline and tell you how the events unfolded
-Dance, a guy asks me a stupid question.
-I think he likes me, and I like him too...starting now
-I decide to go tell him my feelings
-He blushes and stutters a lot but seems happy
-Next day, turns out it's his dad's 1st death anniversary..wrong timing
-I send him an email appologizing and encouraging him to be strong
-Tells my friend he'll reply, and seems happy to recieve it
-Suddenly gets mad and doesnt talk to me
-I still say hello, he gets my friend to tell me to stop talkin to him
-I leave him alone
-People tell me this younger girl has a crush on him
-I dont care I think he has a lot to think about with his dad and all
-Today she asked him out he said yes, and started hugging right in front of me
*So all along I thought that he wasnt responding to me bcuz of his father but I got rejected
Q: I cant stop feeling sad, this guy I loved with all my heart, did this this to me, what advice do u have
2006-11-23 11:32:37 · 11 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are 100% normal and (I presume) rather young. This being the case, and you may not like my answer, forget him and move on!
1. You will have many more folk in your life that you will feelings for.
2. He's a Dweeb for not respecting YOUR feelings. You don't need someone like this in your life!
3. While he is likely living some difficult moments due to the anniversary of his dad's death, he should still have told you outright that; the timing is bad; He's not interested; He's gay! Whatever the reason.
IMHO - You lucked out this time and maybe your gardian angel is keeping watch over you.
Regards and Good Luck with Your Life!
The Ol' Sasquatch Ü
2006-11-23 11:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you shouldn't even think it is love. The only time it is love is if you are willing to spend the rest of your life to him.
And you should think of it as him being the one missing out. Im sure there are plenty of more guys out there desrving of your affection.
A man like him does'nt desrve the affection you are willing to give. And before you start giving so much affection you should actually get to know the person not just believe in love at first sight. Because i'll tell you thats a load of crap.
Find someone who will teach you with respect.
2006-11-23 11:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by Adrian R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you must be pretty young. This was not love but it was a deep crush. Yes it hurts and your heart can get broken from it, but you have to truly know someone before you can truly love them. You couldn't have known this boy that well because he seems to have led you on all along and he was just playing with your heart.
Try finding someone else who might be better for you. Maybe someday he'll look back and realize what a jerk he was. You'll find someone better.
2006-11-23 12:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you love the guy if you just met him. Quit being so emotional and focus on how beautiful you are and that there are lots of other great looking guys out there waiting to get a chance with you. Focus on the positive things and move forward. You're wasting your time............life is too short.
2006-11-23 11:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe. Oh, are you calling me?
Sry, but <~~ see my sn.
K, anywho, lol. well, Im sorry he did that, he sounds like a real ***, but first of all you should find out why the guy got mad at you, bc mayb he wasn;t rejecting you, mayb someone started a rumor or something. mayb he's not an ***... mayb Im wrong, who knows, lol. Well, just try talking to him, try to get him to REALLY talk to you. If he really rejected you then he doesn't deserve you. Goodluck!!
2006-11-23 11:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were not in love. maybe the idea of love but no love. You just have to realize that someone like that wouldn't make you happy. and that you are now available for the right man to find you. try thinking of all his flaws until you see that he wasn't all that great
2006-11-23 11:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by lizzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your friends. Get your nails done or your feet. Thats not your problem that guy is missing out on what a great girl you are. Plus you did not know that it was his dads 1st dead aniversy!
2006-11-23 11:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by stargirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it doesnt sound like you guys were in love. sounds like you did a whole lot of lusting over him. and honestly, guys can be huge jerks. you CAN DO BETTER. he isnt worth your time. while you were busy worrying about his dads death anniversary he was busy doing other things.
2006-11-23 11:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by Mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best advise would be to just be friends with him because the relationship probably won't last. but for now just move on, don't show him that ur broken up. just say hey to him and thats it just be nice. thats all I can say right now.......but if u want to talk to anyone just talk to me.
2006-11-23 11:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by tim8laura238 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he didn't like you like that, find someone one else, dont get all upset over one guy.
2006-11-23 11:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by blacknessforeverandever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋