I have been asking women alot of questions on this site about what they think I should do to get dates and I keep getting confusing answers. You tell me I should approach girls in public instead of getting fixed up by a friend, but then you say you would get freaked out if I tried to talk to you at the mall; and when I ask you where I should go to meet women, you tell me to go to..... the mall?? I am really confused, so why don't you just tell me what you want me and every other guy to do; instead of me asking questions that just get no as answers.
2006-11-23 10:43:52 · 14 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you ask for a very specific answer from around 2 million women, chances are you're going to get confusing answers. Suck it up.
2006-11-23 10:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by 2-cool-2-b-me 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The problem is that every woman has a different way she wants to be approached, and it's not obvious what kind of woman she is until you approach her. It's a catch-22, I know, but that's the way it is. I can tell you what would be awesome for me, though. I would love to meet a guy at a Dungeons & Dragons game. I would love to meet a guy while I was looking to rent horror movies. I would love to meet a guy who was into Star Trek. Most of all, I would love to meet a guy who could be into me instead of how I look. Or, a guy who was so into me that how I looked became beautiful. Could you do something like that, or are you looking for a body type? Are you looking for a body or a person?
2006-11-23 18:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by Bastet's kitten 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's a process to getting a girl. First you have to make friends (this meaning guys and girls) Talk to people that you sit next to in class, even to ask if they studied or something stupid. Talk to people at work...etc Start kicking it with your new friends and I'm sure they have other friends..therefore you now have connections. Go to parties even if you only know one person there and choose a girl you like if any. Start flirting,( just give them alot of attention). Ask for numbers.
2006-11-23 18:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the mall like u said but go into girls stores there r alot of girls there but let them come up 2 u 2 make self noticed do somthing way out there
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go to the movie theater or someplace, go up to a girl and give her a random comment like i like your shoes, but dont make it to random. then just leave an the girl will fall all over u cause you were not hitten on her you were just given her a compliment. ADVICE do not ever fall all over a girl or she will hate you!!!!!
2006-11-23 18:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by alexis n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to meet a guy probably anywhere that's safe, like a mall, or skool. But even online is cool!
2006-11-23 18:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you can meet girls in many ways. AT the SUPERMARKET. AT work .THROUGH a good friend. AT SCHOOL.. AT the mall. AT a local Burger place . AT a PIZZA PARLOR.AT the LAUNDRY MAT. AT a LOCAL FAIR.
2006-11-23 18:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to meet them naturally, no forced blind dates or someone walking up to me. I like when I meet people through friends and introductions.
2006-11-23 18:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by layla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe at a bar it would be nice for a stranger to come up and introduce himself. That would not seem akward to me...in the mall maybe.
2006-11-23 18:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by texascomet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no one place to meet anyone. Some meet on blind dates, some at church, some standing in line at the store, some through friends, etc. etc. etc.
2006-11-23 18:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
accidently bump into someone laugh giggle buy food ask for her number call her date her have sex get married have a kid
2006-11-23 18:48:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋