Let's say you just found out that this 20 year old you were dating was a virgin, what would you think of her?
2006-11-23 10:33:02 · 13 answers · asked by Coco 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would think that would be great! You are only a Virgin once. I would not pressure her into anything and would instead wait until she was ready. There are many ways to satisfy a man (or boy as the case might be) with out compromising your virginity.
Hang on to it as long as you can (want). But don't let anyone pressure you into giving it up. If they pressure you they don't deserve you!
2006-11-23 10:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by iamhermansen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she is someone your attracted to and enjoy being around and the feeling is mutual, I would hang on as long as possible because she is the type more than likely that will not take off with the next guy that comes along. That is as long as your hormones don't explode first. My advice is take it slow. I'm assuming you are around the same age of course.
2006-11-23 18:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by John S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would probably think "Wow, what a rarity in this day and age to find someone with such strength in their convictions."
Really, it all depends on how the two of you view your relationship. Is it serious? How serious? What are you willing to share with one another?
There's no right or wrong answer here. Just be true to yourselves and each other and everything will work out fine.
2006-11-23 18:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by rtanys 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a MOM, I think you should be proud of her. With all the pressures today it is amazing young girls can save themselves. Maybe there is still hope out there. More virgin brides would be perfect. NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You make 20 sound ancient.
2006-11-23 18:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by Penny Mae 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
unless you plan on marrying that girl ...when u leave her she should be in the same condition as when u found her...thats like picking up a diamond and trying to find a flaw!!
2006-11-23 18:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by marshall m 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would be impressed with her high moral values,
and not caving in to peer pressure just to fit in.
2006-11-23 18:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would hug her and tell her to stay that way till she's married
2006-11-23 18:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by kayef57 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would think she was a very good person ! you should be proud ! there*s not many left at that age !
2006-11-23 18:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by Barbie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be thinking I'm not going to get any for awhile.
2006-11-23 18:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by mrkitties420 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her if she was waiting to be married to have sex and if not give her the first test run
2006-11-23 18:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋