I love my girlfriend and i know she loves me, and im happy with her. But i still seek attention from other women, with no intentions of leaving my girlfriend, yet i treat mine like sh1t and the others like gold. Why do i do this. I used to think it was fwear of being with one woman, but i think there is more to it than that
2006-11-23 10:20:55 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that*s stupid ! if u love her u will leave other women alone ! you must not be to happy ! you want your cake & eat it too ! she*s crazy for putting up with you !
2006-11-23 11:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Barbie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're not very commited to your girlfriend...
How does she feel about you? If she is serious about you, then I suggest you break it off, because you obviously feel other feelings for other women.
You're not inhuman for feelings these feelings - I'm guessing lots of guys feel these feelings...
However, from a girl's POV, it isn't very nice to be cheated on and you should let her down gently if you want to be with other women....
If you want your relationship to work with your girlfriend, then I suggest you treat her better and maybe make more of an effort with her. A new relationship with a new woman might seem exciting, but will they really stay with you and be committed to you as your girlfriend is to you?
Think about what is more important to you: a loving relationship or endless short strings of relationships? Listen to you heart and your head and then make a decision swiftly...
I hope this helps!
xx
2006-11-23 18:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by hunny_bun15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want what you cant have. Its like the thrill of the chase. It can be self esteem issue with you also - like you dont understand why she really like you and stays so you treat her like ****- so you can use that excuse if she decides to leave.
You need to really look inside yourself and think if this is the way you think she desires to be treated. Doesnt she deserve the respect and good things you give random girls and more? Why not give that to a girl who really appreciates it - treasure a chic who sticks with you thru all the sh*t you give- MANY MANY girls would have dropped you. Its all about do you want to still be in a kid relationship or move into a adult one?
2006-11-23 18:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell u that u ll loose ur girl friend soon if u keep treating her like that. u know why u treat her like that, coz u're pretty sure that she loves u and she won't let u down but i ll tell u one thing watch out, if u really love her as u said,u should proove it by treating her good and respect her not cheating her with others.
2006-11-23 18:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an..err interesting way of showing your love to her. It's good that you're admiting that you're not the best person you can be towards her, though. What I recommend is CHANGE your personality before she dumps you.
2006-11-23 18:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start treating your woman well or she will leave you for some dude who treats her better,
2006-11-23 18:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, your intentions and wants are probably split... you just need time to figure out why.
2006-11-23 18:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice hat gilligan! I think your just a butthole that's all
2006-11-23 18:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by antiekdilur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋