been dating my bf for 2 yrs. We broke up yesterday not because of us but because of the psycho ex-wife that he has. We have dealt with it for the 2yrs and I guess her last evil act was just too much. I just feel that we need sometime to rest from it and then get back together. He just feels that I need to go on and find someone new. My question if you truly loved your gf would you eventually try to work it out with her or because you do care for her not want her to go have to put up with the ex. We did end of good terms, maybe sometime, I think I just need to give him time to realize how much he cares about me. In the 2yrs we only broke up once for 12hrs over the same reason.
2006-11-23 09:57:22 · 8 answers · asked by syd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So he'd rather be alone with just the misery his ex-wife inflicts on him? Not logical. How is it that his ex-wife has so much control over his life still? If he has a problem with depression he should get treatment instead of wallowing in self-pity and helplessness.
It does sound like he needs to get his affairs in order, but once that is done, there is no reason he shouldn't be able to have a life all the more with the support of a good partner. Consider your own future as well, don't be too much of a Florence Nightingale.
2006-11-23 10:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by Zee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you are going to be together, you are going to have to keep her out of the equation. Don't argue about her, don't allow her to upset you, and when she does don't discuss it with him to the point of an argument. That is what she wants, she is miserable or else she would find something else to do with her time besides be involved in your relationship. If you continue to break up because of her, she has won. God bless****
2006-11-23 10:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, break up compleatly. Cut the ties!
Why? You will torture yourself if you don't. Love aside, to function, you need to move on. Have some fun for a while, date other people, and move on. Then, if you still want to be with him and he wants to be with you....easy. You are then at a better position to evaluate what you want in a relationship with him because you are detached.
I promise, it is worth it.
2006-11-23 10:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 19:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be feeling frustrated from all going on between you, him and Miss Exx and to give you a piece he may have walked away. aving said that he will come back to you. Don't worry.
2006-11-23 10:00:55 · answer #5 · answered by South Londoner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say.....maybe he cares too much about you that he let u go
he doesn't want u get hurt...
only a few who really love and care...can sacrifice
i am not saying that this is the right decision...but maybe it is what he believes
2006-11-23 10:04:56 · answer #6 · answered by Leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love doesnt get tired maybe he likes his ex more since he chooses her over you, if he started the break up talk seems like you connection is not stong like love
2006-11-23 10:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by self0dest0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um....i think he wants you gone so he can flip out on his x rofl
2006-11-23 10:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by dragons777dr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋