Last year for christmas I spent time with his family, but this year he didn't invite me over to his families with him. Should I be offended or should I let him do him for thanksgiving.
2006-11-23 08:33:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would be deeply offended myself, and if he loves you- youd think he would want you to be there with him.
Why dont you ask him why- if hes got anything about him - he should be honest with you.
2006-11-23 08:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by Little Minx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all depends.
If your relationship is less than 2 months, then maybe he does not think its necessary.
It could also be that he's shy because that would mean introducing you to his family - which is the step before commitment and he's just not ready for that yet.
in any case, if he is really eager about and he really cares for you he would happily make you a part of every aspect of his life, including his family life.
Someone who does not wants to share you with the most important people in his life (his life) is not thinking of making you a part of his life in the long-term
Basically, regardless of what he says, he does not see you as his girlfriend and definitely not as a possible long-term partner.
Sorry.
2006-11-23 08:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by ladyP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys aren't married yet so I don't think it's imperative that you attend every family gathering.
Edit
Oops..I just noticed that your name is "Mrs"....I guess you should be a little weirded out that he didn't invite you, his wife, to Thanksgiving with his family. That really is odd!
2006-11-23 08:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by monkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a question you should really ask yourself about cause only you would know. I know I wouldn't be too happy if my girl didn't at least tell me why she didn't want me to be there.
2006-11-23 08:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by TravisButtaz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to feel however you want to feel, and if you feel slighted you should let him know in a non threatening way.
2006-11-23 09:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by ~MB~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is "your man," and have you progressed toward marriage after another year has gone by?
2006-11-23 08:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not Christmas yet...
2006-11-23 08:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe......talk to him about it ask him why............
2006-11-23 08:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by Laura_Kaleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋