and not one person called me and my full blooded brothers or sisters to tell us the news:( My brother is fighting for his life as he has galloping cancer:(
I am very upset about this because after all he is my big brother with a 30 year difference, I love my big brother not one of his kids or his wife bothered to get a hold of me or me full blooded brother and sisters, do I have a reason to be upset and made at all of them? them being my half brothers children and wife as well as my other half brother and sisters, is it immature to be mad?
2006-11-23 08:32:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
this is not the time to harbour a grudge. Use the time he has left to show him how much you care.
2006-11-23 08:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can be angry but don't turn on his family. Help your brother through this situation with your love and talk to his family after the danger of dying is over but absolutely do not get so mad at them you lose your cool. explain to his family taht you are family too and you are upset you were not contacted. Beware because it could be they did not have your contact information. Don't get in the family's face about the problem. Deal with your half brother first and then talk to the family.
2006-11-23 11:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by JEB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear a dear family member is fighting cancer. My uncle (59yo) is fighting cancer at the moment too and we are surprised and shocked at how his wife (of 35years) is acting indifferent and still going out to wedding parties, birthday parties, etc. while he is alone at home waiting for her. I've come to understand that people grieve in different ways. Sometimes they are too afraid to face the reality of the situation so they try to avoid it. My mum is holding a grudge against his wife and I find that she is so focused on the grudge that she is loosing track of what is really in front of her. Don't think about other people at the moment, think of what you can do to help and support your brother, so that you know that you are doing all you can for him during the time when he needs YOU the most, no one else.
2006-11-23 09:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by jbjvjb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not immature to be mad and hurt. And I can see why you are. But right now, just try to concentrate on your brother and be there for him. Sounds like he needs ALL of his family to be there for him right now. I would say to keep your personal hurt to yourself for now. Maybe at a later time when he is well or when things are calmer you can let someone know how you feel. The whole family is in a turmoil and you telling them now would only make things worse. But I would tell them someday. I'm so sorry to hear about your brother who it sounds like you truly love. Hang in there, and God bless you both.
2006-11-23 08:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jennylee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 11:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now when your brother is fighting for his life is not really the time to be angry; but I could completely see you being hurt, I know I would be. A lot of times in those situations though, everone assumes someone else contacted everyone
2006-11-23 08:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by Blah:Blah:Blah 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong to feel the hurt and pain of these ignorant people. Just be thankful you have heart and know how to feel. Go see your brother, there is no excuse for them.
2006-11-23 08:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by mtd29485 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is being mad at anyone going to cure your brother?
Try and see him and show him your respect and love.
Do not let anger for "xyz" cloud your judgment or your love for "abc"...get it!?
Be brave. My prayers are with you and your brother.
2006-11-23 08:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by sadsmile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your hurt feeling aside for now, go spend time with your brother... when he is well... lay it to them, let them know how P.O. you are about their inconsiderateness.
Best of wishes to you & your brother.
2006-11-23 08:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have every right to be mad. However I would be Thankful that you didn't find this info out months after he was all ready dead!
2006-11-23 08:36:57 · answer #10 · answered by Krissa D 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋