When we fight she has to finish the fight THAT night. I need a day or so to calm down or I'll just get more and more mad the more she wants to talk about it. She'll call me like 10000 times or even come over if I refuse to talk about it that night. She'll be up all night and the next day will be hell.
2006-11-23 08:27:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, the best reason is to not fight in the first place. The next thing to do is to try and stay very calm, after all, a few mismade words can ruin a relationship. If she's impatient, then do what you'll learn is the best situation for any man in a fight with a woman: give in. They are very good at arguments, they'll win eventually. 95% of the time women win the arguments, the other 5%, they give to men because it's too trivial to waste their breaths with.
But it's best not to fight in the first place, after all.
2006-11-23 08:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that sucks. If its a fight over something large its always better to step away and cool off. Sit down and talk to her about it and explain that some times you need time to move away from an issue so you can look at the situation without so much emotion clouding your judgment. Good luck.
2006-11-23 16:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she just hates to end the day with a fight.
I'm the same way.
But honestly... I'm not needy like her.
When my boyfriend and I have an argument and end the day in that argument, it's fine. I know he needs his time to think and I do too. Sure, it's a little hard to go to sleep that night, but we need that space.
Just let her know that you need the space. And the more she pushes you, the more you will pull away.
2006-11-23 16:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm with her u should go to bed not talk , don't have to be best buddies just not fighting, let her think that your OK then take a day to think then talk to her, best of both worlds
2006-11-23 16:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know you need time to calm down and you don't want to argue anymore, she's probably the type who has to get it off her chest right away, get her a punching bag.
2006-11-23 18:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gotta talk aobut it that night. people hate to sleep on a fight. much better to cool off and get it over with
2006-11-23 16:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by steve bechler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just dump her if you dont get alone but this is just my sayin if you fell good around her then tell her she needs to calm down and you guys try to stay outta trouble
2006-11-23 16:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by my mom ND dad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on because you are two people who do not fit. You are complaining that is not a good thing. She is manic depressive. I hope you are all there too!
2006-11-23 16:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her you need more time than to get back to togther that night. B/c if u need more time tell her that. Than letting her do what she wants u not what you want.
2006-11-23 16:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by gymnast101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she dont want to go to bed mad
2006-11-23 16:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by ??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋