I am a female talking to a male christian friend. We talk alot over the phone and I we just talk in general.He said he is attracted to me,he would marry me but I don't agree to that.We are only friends so he tried to control his feelings. The problem is I always feel like I've sin when I speak to him some times. I get this feeling like I've done something wrong and I am really scared am doing something wrong. Do you think this could be because I am afraid to have feelings for anyone. What can I do to change this feeling because I love to talk to him.Anytime I told him my guilty feelings he want not to talk much but then I always want to hear from him. What do you think?
2006-11-23 08:13:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what you stated it's innocent conversation, what sin is in that? Marriage is a commitment, probably one of the biggest you will ever make in life. Take your time and get to know one another, become the best of friends and see where it goes from there. Being honest with your feelings that you have for someone is something that should be reciprocated to you. You should always get back what you give. You know there is power in prayer when you are looking for guidance from God, say a little prayer for yourself and God will hear you. Good Luck : )
2006-11-23 08:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by rhythmoftheblues 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL just pray for God to show you the right thing. do it now and take a nap and u will have all the answers in your dream.
God bless you.
2006-11-23 16:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by Galaxy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel guilty cause your leading him on. I think you need to give it up and enjoy life, if god didnt like sex why'd god make it feel soooooooooo good
2006-11-23 16:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a sin to speak to a male :>
2006-11-23 16:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by starship1239 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to a therapist.
2006-11-23 16:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋