Calling when drunk?

Question

A guy who i've known for almost a year is always calling me whenever he's drunk... but when he's sober, we can talk and talk for ages, sometimes for 4 hours....we get along really well but i don't know what his intentions are...

What does he want?

We don't end up sleeping together. We just end up talking, he seems to be more open when drunk... he's sometimes drunk, but guess it's normal cuz he works in a bar. He's always happy to see me when sober. Some friends suggested that he's less shy when he's drunk that's why he calls me... He's been feeling bad about it though, and said that he had to delete my number from his phone so he wont disturb me. However, I met him the other day at the bar, he confessed that he didn't delete my number from his phone only from his phone book, cuz it's too hard for him to delete everything.

Answer 1

Some friends of mine, when we were drinking and having a good time, always told me about the reasons they left with no doubts their sweethearts. But, as soon as they got drunk, they started to play in the HiFi "their songs", or the songs that make that emptyness they fell hurt. They used to cry for their girls, and started to call them (2 or 3 a.m.) making them lo listen "the song" and start to tell them thing like "you are nothing without me!!!", "you'll miss me!", "I already have another love", and other lies. He's affraid to be rejected.
The reason this guy is calling you is because he is crazy about you, but he doesn't have enough courage to tell you so.
If you think he is a good guy, you can give him a little help to move ahead and open his heart to you. I am like him, with the difference that I never get drunk and never phone anybody when I am in a party.

Answer 2

They say a drunk person always speak a sober mind, I find it true. What does he talk about when he's calling drunk? If he's talking about sex, then that's what his intentions are. It all depends on what his conversation is about when he calls you sweetie. It sounds like you are on his mind during those moments of drunkness, and not to say that's a bad thing, but it all depends on what he's talking about when he calls. Start listening a little more to his conversations when he call drunk and use your judgement there. Or wait till he's sober then ask him why he calls you when he's drunk. You can't get a better answer than from the source. Good Luck sweetie

Answer 3

Ask him why he calls you when he is drunk. It sounds like he likes you and probably would rather be with you than drinking all the time. When he gets drunk he realizes how much of a mistake it is to be drunk and not with you and he wants to talk to you about it, which is also a mistake. Getting drunk or trying to have a relationship while drunk is going to lead to problems. Bring your feelings in the open and help him out of this situation.

Answer 4

Ask him. My question is how often is he drunk? Is that a problem? If not then when he calls drunk tell him you don't want to talk to him when he has been drinking and ask him to call the next day when he is sober.

Answer 5

That is commonly known as a "booty call"...he wants some sex, but is afraid to ask when he's sober and right in front of you. No wonder; you seem oblivious; so I'd imagine he isn't going to get what he wants, either way!

Answer 6

The drunk call is a sign of love. He's crazy about you.

Answer 7

i think he just want to have sex with you when he`s drunk cause you`re all he can think about during that time. i think you should have a little talk with him. good luck ! =]

Answer 8

He is an alcoholic with a problem ..... move on

Answer 9

me niether sister

Answer 10

He probably wants to have sex with you..