The last erm...4 years now i have hyped myself up for christmas but by dinner time, im ready to cry my heart out, get back in bed and roll into a ball. I always feel awlful because my mom is piggy in the middle with me, my sis and step dad and basically i dont like my step dad...and xmas just aint jolly no more. Its fake to me, and i feel a right cow when i go up stairs to cry! How can i make thsi xmas better as im dreading it so much???
2006-11-23 07:53:17 · 9 answers · asked by Fayeboo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
go to church.remember the true meaning of x mas
2006-11-23 07:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by leila rose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard especially at Christmas but try and think of other kids who have it worse off then you. There are plenty of children who do not have anything under the tree (or a tree at all) to celebrate with. If you wanted to you could volunteer at a soup kitchen or homeless shelter and this might help make you more grateful for what you have as well as feel good about helping out the less fortunate.
2006-11-23 07:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend xmas alone. Thats what i do. I spend all holidays alone. Its hard at first but then you will get used to it and believe me its great. I am 28 and have been spending the holidays alone now for about 9 years or so. Happiness comes from within not outside sources contrary to what people tell you.
2006-11-23 08:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I volunteer to coordinate adopt-a-family and help the poor. Sometimes I am only home for Christmas for half a day because I am out delivering food for the adopt-a-family program. That gets me outside myself and the pain of being with my crazy family.
2006-11-23 08:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by copestir 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only say look at your past mistakes and learn from them. You may not be able to change your family but you can do things that don't include them and can be very enjoyable. Volunteering can make your heart feel real full.
2006-11-23 08:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well start bye taking a deep deep breath and start bye having a christmias dinner call everybody up and then before you have spend sometime alone ask yourself why you are mad.trust me darling it will work out and then try and go swimming it calms the nerves
2006-11-23 07:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i do feel like that sometimes..i sometimes just wanna crawl up to bed & just sleep the night away..i guess it be normal if you have issues with your family..in my case, it's just me & my mum & she's working abroad so it's really lonely when other people are enjoying the holidays with their families while you're out there all alone..
2006-11-23 08:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by -= Qtee =- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend your Christmas with friends, if it's that painful to spend it with your family, You should be happy on Christmas. Don't let your stepdad get you down!
2006-11-23 08:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by queendebadow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to them
2006-11-23 08:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by April 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋