but if a guy has kids, most say no way, too much baggage? Do they not think that if a guy is willing to accept their kids that they should be too?
And No, not all girls are this way, but most are.
2006-11-23 07:48:32 · 8 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cause some women (most are) self centered and only think of what can benefit them. having a caring man in their life is great but they see him being a father to their kids as a bonus. when a man comes in with kids they see it as more work for themselves and see no reason to bother wiith it. while not all women are liek this too many are and its a shame.
2006-11-23 07:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by g g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My experience dictates different. It is like tit for tat. People judge a single person that has a child. Most don't realize that the man or woman is not looking for another mother/daddy, that person is looking for adult conversation / interaction. But also it could be that the freedom the woman has with out kids some want to hold on tight to that they want to be able to do lot more .
I am a single mom and still get labelled to much baggage.
2006-11-23 15:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by twohassled2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they feel like It wasn't their fault they have kids, and they think that all guys are dogs like their ex/baby's daddy.
I think that they just assume that everyone should feel bad for them because they are women, but then when a man does treat them like they are weak little nothings, they get angry and want to be treated like the "strong independent" woman they are.
Women like this are immature in 3 ways:
- they are immature because they had kids, couldnt deal with it with the father/they had sex and OOPS
- they expect the next guy they meet to "save them"
-they dont want any responsiblility
The reason they say "HELL NO" to guys with kids is because they have this idea that its all the guys fault.
HELLLLOOOOOOOOO! it takes 2 people to get pregnant.
2006-11-23 15:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you are meeting the wrong girls...My husband brought along a 1 year old boy and a 4 year old girl...Add that to my kids who were 3 and 5...as well as me being pregnant...Now we have 5 children and his even live with us...Keep searching. If she cant accept them then she is not worth it.
2006-11-23 15:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by nekiawhitaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This amazes me! Wish I ran into that kind of baggage in my relationships. Toast her...if you are a good father that is very sexy and I promise that a real lady will scoop ya up soon. Shame on you girls!!
2006-11-23 16:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by karenschonert 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Casual sex with a woman with kids is ok, but I wouldn't date one. If it lead to marriage, mixed families are just too much hassle.
2006-11-23 15:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.It depends on the gurl ur with,about saying no to the man's kids
2.becuz if u like them then u have to know everything attached to her
2006-11-23 16:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man they're like sweets and us like flys around it, they scare we touch hide places and them bring some1 else
2006-11-23 15:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by Dennis m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋