Why is it that a lot of girls these days just want sexual relationships, that's ok I guess but GOD damn does that **** get old.
I just can't understand why they avoid actual relationships, I want a real relationship, but I always end up with a girl who I just have sex with, and nothing else, WHAT THE HELL?
It's as if girls have switched roles with guys and are treating guys like nothing more than sexual objects, GO FIGURE and YES a lot of women do this....
What happened to relationships....
2006-11-23 07:38:23 · 15 answers · asked by crazyinsane0000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dnt know
2006-11-23 07:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by milly 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am a 19 year old female woman and NO I do not act like this. However, I do know many women that do behave this way, but they definitely don't outnumber all of the guys I know as well.
I am saving myself for marriage so I want to focus on the emotional part of the relationship and it is hard these days, considering most people are sexually active whether they are in a relationship or not.
I just know that God has a plan and a guy that is right for me in mind. I just need to be patient and when the right guy comes along, I'll know it.
I think these days everything is just so fast paced that people just want to have as much fun and pleasure as possible without thinking of the consequences. No wonder STD's are running rampant throughout the nation and the world. People are becoming sexually active younger and younger, and if they do decide to become sexually active they need to at least be educated and learn to use protection!!
2006-11-23 15:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
They are afraid to get hurt. Sex is basically no attachment and its easier for them. They get that special feeling and then leave without the drama of all the emotions involved. I know it sucks, maybe its how you are attracting girls? If they just want sex, you should refuse until you feel they actually care about you. Or go some where where you know girls are actually looking for a guy that wants to commit. I dont do this, but I dont like the friends with benefits thing, so if I wanted sex, the wouldnt be seeing me again. I wouldnt bother stringing them along.
2006-11-23 15:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the roles of men and women are becoming more and more similar. Men have been doing the same thing for years and now the women are in the workforce and don't "need" a man to support them as they did years ago. For good or bad, it's equality.
2006-11-23 15:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda208 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
About time that women treat men the way men have always treated them. Like objects!! Meet a nice girl at a church and maybe she'll want more.
2006-11-23 15:43:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Actually, you've been picking up the wrong women. It's because your way of life isn't set. Profanity, using the Lords name isn't a good start to a stable lifestyle,with a good woman. Change your way of thinking and your desires. It's all about the choices we make, that brings change.
2006-11-23 15:48:33 · answer #6 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are still gurls who believe in relationships but u haven't stumbled across one yet and maybe they were doing this to show men how we felt when all they wanted was sex.
2006-11-23 16:21:36 · answer #7 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to say, It is the type of women you are choosing to be involved with. Change your choices and you will find someone. Choose a different type of women. Change the places you are meeting them. Good luck and God bless****
2006-11-23 15:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i hate that, it ruins the relationships for the girls (like me) who want a long term relationship, and thats just shi.ty
2006-11-23 15:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by ruspecialenuf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it happened when men refused to support women, women then wanted equality, and now that women can support themselves (and men want them to support themselves) they don't need you anymore. See what men started?
2006-11-23 15:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by sophieb 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think the woman finally caught on to the guys bulls h i t and now its pay back time!! sucks for you tho
2006-11-23 15:42:06 · answer #11 · answered by DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋