I can name a million times where at work I can walk into a conversion about me, nothing bad, but it's always about them being with me and what they would do if I was with them, & SEX (CRAZY STUFF).
I simply act as I don't hear it, but why can't these women confront me if there interested, geez what's the deal, why can't YOU CAN'T YOU JUST TELL ME lol.
2006-11-23 07:21:38 · 14 answers · asked by crazyinsane0000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Same reason guys talk about girls behind their backs. Insecurity, low self esteem.
2006-11-23 07:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Often women are not raised to be assertive and when they are they are challenged and called masculine. This may be at the root of why these women talk about you and not to you. Hopefully someday soon one of them will get up the ovaries to just ask you out and say all of their desires to your face. Or maybe someday you will approach one of them.
By the way, men act in this same way too. It is just that often when a man does it we don't notice because we expect them to talk about sex and women and bodyparts...you get it.
I think we all talk about one another. It is too bad we are all so scared to just come out and say what we want.
2006-11-23 07:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by jandracu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the same reason why men do.
And, of course, vice-versa.
Woman do it either for interest of the man, and they just are too frightened to say it to their face. Or, a conversation just came up about that situation, not exactly aiming it upon you.
For men, talking behind a girl's back is different, because men usually say negative things.
This is just from my experience.
2006-11-23 07:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by M A D D i K i N S ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women talk behind guys back because they want to find out opinions
2006-11-23 07:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it goes both ways. Guy are as afraid, even more to ask someone out, afraid of rejection. Why don't YOU confront them and stop complaining about it! Haha, nice answer Chezzy, love it! Talk about ironic!
2006-11-23 07:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by Megan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, if you think about it...talking behind your back means they are talking to your face! It's natural, everybody does it; the only thing wrong with it is if they aren't willing to repeat what they said in your presence and that makes them sneaky!
2006-11-23 07:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason men talk behind women's backs.
2006-11-23 07:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They could be shy,,,insecure..many reasons..maybe next time instead of pretending that u ddin't hear them...confront them about it..u never know tehre could be a relationship behind it.
2006-11-23 07:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by Newfie_Girl_13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When women say who they want to ****, they are automatically considered sluts. And no women wants to be thought of as a slut. If you know that they want you, why don't you have the balls to ask them?
2006-11-23 07:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by middelmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they might think that if you hear them instead of tell u to there face that you might accoualy take them serious. when half the time they are just kidding.
2006-11-23 07:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by myranda c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋