Okay, what would your intake on this be.
Say you still like this girl that you broke up with cause you guys hadn't talked for awhile, she calls you and you won't pick up because you still have feelings for her.
I'm having this problem with my ex, what should I do, or if you were a guy in this situation, what is your purpose for doing it?
2006-11-23 07:13:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BTW,
I'm a girl stuck in this situation, with this guy.
You= Chris
Me= The girl he is ignoring
2006-11-23 07:20:06 · update #1
Okay, let me get this straight -- you WON'T pick up because you still have feelings for her? If you still have feelings for the gal I would think you'd WANT to pick up.
Talk to her, man.
2006-11-23 07:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lonnie P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to know, without knowing the situation (and of course not only knowing what *you* think the situation is, but also what *he* thinks the situation is -- often the difference between the two is the REAL problem).
I'm not sure what led to you two not talking for a while, but one possibility -- just a possibility -- is that he might have felt that he was pursuing you for a while, and if you never initiated talking/hanging out with him, he started feeling kind of uncomfortable, "does she really like me," and finally that if you weren't interested it was better just to break up.
Obviously there are a lot of other ways this could have gone down, I don't know the particulars of your situation. You'll have to figure -- why IS it you weren't talking for a while? And, is it possible the two of you have different ideas of why?
Looking at these questions could give you something helpful to say and to ask if he does finally pick up your calls. (In the meantime, if you know any of his friends, or your friends know his, you might be able to find out a bit of what's going on that way.)
Good luck.
2006-11-23 15:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by M W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF U LOVE HER ENOUGH AND SHE STILL STILL LOVES YOU YOU TWO SHOULD GET BACK TOGETHER(IF SHE HASN'T REPLACED YOU WITH ANOTHER GUY) ME MYSELF WOULD TRY TO GET BACK WITH HER IN FACT THE SAME THING JUST HAPPENED TO ME TWO WEEKS AGO AND THIS LAST WEEK THAT WENT BY ME AND HER GOT HOOKED BACK UP. ANOTHER THING IS IF YOU BROKE UP WITH HER AND YOU WANT HER BACK SO BAD YOU CAN TASTE IT YOU BETTER START WRITING/THINKING OF A REALLY LONG APPOLOGY FOR HER IT GETS THEM 10/12ths OF THE TIME. THATS ABOUT ALL I CAN TELL YOU SORRY.
2006-11-23 15:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by fozey0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like a girl, keep her close to you. And pick up the phone. and try to make her happy. don't be a looser like I was
2006-11-23 15:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by q_tavy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have issues! pick up the phone and stop playing games
2006-11-23 15:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋