is it cheating if...
a. you just make out with the person
b. you make our with a different person while touching on the outside of the clothing!
c. in a different country?
we're not talking sex here.. i like to kiss, is that wrong?? he doesnt mind when i make out with my girlfriends...
2006-11-23 07:06:52 · 13 answers · asked by Samantha N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cheating is cheating if you are doing it with someone other than the one you are committed to regardless of where you are even if you did not have sex with a male or female.
2006-11-23 07:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a, b, and c are all cheating. Terrible! If you kiss your girlfriends, that's cute or sexy for him, but if you kiss another guy, that's just plain being a whore and cheating, no offense. And being in a different country doesn't count? Where do you get this? Sorry, sorry, sorry, but wouldn't you feel a little bit bad if your boyfriend felt that these weren't examples of cheating?
2006-11-23 07:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is just that, doing something you're not supposed to. If you're in an open relationship...you both define the rules.
My boyfriend and I have set rules. I'm allowed to kiss other girls, but it has to be my choice and he has to agree to it. I don't just go and make out with people. He trusts me and knows that if I have that bit of freedom, our relationship will be stronger. Opposite sex is the line though, neither of us travel there. We are made to be with one another and only one another.
2006-11-23 07:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by rosesaremaroon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES its cheating. You are sharing intimacy with some one else. You should discuss this with him, NOT with us. Only he can decide what is ok and what is not. If he believes it is cheating, you should respect his wishes and not do it, no matter how much you want to or dont be with him at all. If he is ok with it, than its not cheating in that manner. Everyone relationship is different, and you should always think for two people. Not just for yourself when you are in one.
2006-11-23 07:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ewwwww. Yes, it is cheating. Any intimate contact (including kissing) outside a committed relationship is cheating. Including the girl on girl antics - which is just sick.
2006-11-23 07:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you even touch another girl you are cheating if you like you girlfriend then you would not even in your right mind think of going near another girl
2006-11-23 07:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by Puppy love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, when you have any sexual/physical contact with another person, it is cheating. If you love your boyfriend you wouldn't want to touch others. Maybe you don't???
2006-11-23 07:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) yes
b) yes
c) yes
Don't kid yourself - cheating is cheating!
Obviously, sex is a stronger form of cheating than kissing, but it is still cheating.
It doesnt sound like you're very commited to him...?
2006-11-23 07:10:27 · answer #8 · answered by Torn soul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a freak. Get over it and stand by your man. There are names for broads like you.
2006-11-23 07:10:43 · answer #9 · answered by Cisco Kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you saw your partner doing the things you have described, what would you think?
2006-11-23 07:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by Jade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋