but now I'm convinced that all I love is the attention I get from him. We have been friends for about a year and at one time (April-May -ish) I couldn't stop thinking about him. I still care about him a lot and I guess he loves me, looking at the way he behaves. Is that enough to get into a relationship? I would hate to wreck the friendship we have.
2006-11-23 06:56:56 · 10 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you just dont feel that attraction the way he might, I suggest against a relationship. Dont do it because you might feel guilty or wreck the friendship. The best way to do anything is be honest about it. You want to be with some one you are madly in love with and know it for sure and they feel the same. Dont cheat yourself with this one, becuase in the end, guess who you are going to hurt when you dont want to be with him anymore? That friend. Be honest, be kind, and be firm.
Good luck.
2006-11-23 07:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just last week I revealed to a girl that I have feelings for her after knowing her for about three years. We are very close, in fact we are so close that she sees me as a brother. Ouch!! She doesn't see me the same way and now she acts weird around me, she actually avoids and ignores me. By telling her how I feel I ruined the best "girl" friend I have but still I think I did the right thing. I don't even know if this helps you but you can ruin your friendship if you're wrong.
2006-11-23 07:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by Tastes like Chicken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey
If you like attention and the way he is treating you then let it be.
I have wreck'n a friend trying to make it into a relationship. You shouldn't get the two mixed-up cuz, you 2 might like the way the friendship is going, so don't ruin it just cuz u think your in love!!!
So just let it come to you both, don't rush!!
Friends 1st Then Relationship
2006-11-23 07:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by thinkpink4u101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right you love the attention. Otherwise you would not be second guessing yourself. I would not risk a good friendship unless I was sure that I loved him and that he was the one for me. Friends are hard to find and when a relationship goes sour its almost impossible to keep up a friendship becouse of the emotional baggage and hurt. Good luck and I hope it works out for you.
2006-11-23 07:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by buffybot67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly women think they can be friends with men a lot easier then men can with women. most men have no female friends i never have or will have female friends because strong emotions particularly jelousy come into play somewhere along the line. you have to go for the big gamble and give it a go or cut loose the friendship and carry foward with life without him.
2006-11-23 07:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever yo decide........make sure that you stay honest with him. If youre not comfortable in a relationship, you should move on. If he really does care about you, he wont let this ruin a friendship.
Best of Luck!
2006-11-23 07:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mark C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a try..if you were really great friends then im sure if anything negative happens between you, u will remain friends.
good luck & happy thanksgiving
2006-11-23 07:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by kim w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with what your heart tells you. Because your only going to hurt your self if you don't.
2006-11-23 07:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by RIP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes get with him only if you really love him, get butterflies when you see him, and can't keep your hands off him.
2006-11-23 07:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by SD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to ur heart and not ur mind. ur mind can drive u crazy..
2006-11-23 07:10:34 · answer #10 · answered by vfm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋