if u found out that your boyfriend is a down low brother, ( secreat gay) but u still love him and he still loves you, then we can still live happy ever after...
2006-11-23 06:43:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how do you know for a fact that he "loves" you? for all you know, he could be thinking of naked guys. Its possible hes bi
2006-11-23 06:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww man, ironically, I've been in the same situation. What did I do? Well, he went from being my boyfriend to being my gay best friend. I'm still closer with him and have better talks with him than any other person I know, and sadly he's the best boyfriend I've ever had, best kisser and everything, he even drove a BMW, which is rare for a kid his age and goes to U of M. Yes, he was perfect, and I admit I get a bit jealous when he dates other guys and everything, but we still have a very close bond. You don't have to be boyfriend/girlfriend to have a bond that close, and I'm closer with him than any other guy. He's like my gay soul mate, and we always give eachother relationship advice. Both of you should start dating guys and comparing them and laughing about it, you can still live happily ever after, just think of it this way, you have even more in common now.
2006-11-23 14:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very sticky. He may "love you" but he can never be with you. I had a friend that was totally infatuated with me and come to find out later, he was gay. He said he realized he would always like me, but he just couldnt be with me in that way. Your boy will realize this too in the end. You are going to have to let him go on this one. If he is gay..he is GAY. Gay is not a choice, dear. Its the way he was born and you cant change that. He will want to be with guys after he realizes he cant love you the way you should be loved. I would slowly pull away from this situation for your own sake. I hope your wounds heal.
2006-11-23 14:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this type of relationship, there will never be any way that you can commit to one another. Not a problem if you guys love each other.......but it seems that you would be better as friends who care. Honestly........I believe that it would be best if you both discussed the relationship. Experiment with dating, you never know what could come of this.
2006-11-23 14:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mark C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because sooner or later he'll break free and start dating other men freely. In the end, you'll end up with your heart broken because right now he isn't being totally true to his real self. Sorry.
2006-11-23 14:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there cant b a happily ever after if he's till havin a longing to b with a man, now if u do a 3-some then mayb but thats up to u.
2006-11-23 14:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by dred_loxx_4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless u like 3 ways
2006-11-23 14:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well is he cheating on you? You can still love eachother as best friends??!?!??
2006-11-23 14:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by as 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's gay I don't really think so
2006-11-23 14:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by Allison c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because he will want to date men
2006-11-23 14:45:17 · answer #10 · answered by krystal c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋