GUYS ONLY I need your honest advice please help me hun XX?

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GUYS ONLY I need your honest advice please help me hun XX?
A guy i went out with said i was wierd what does this mean besides the obvious?
this guy asked me out for a bit we went out i was going through a real hard time at work and probably acted a little strange he said i was wierd and left it at that. I sent him a text saying sorry for all the strange things that happened and he texted me back saying not to worry and that he was glad i could laugh at it with a mate and at the end put take care. Does this mean he still fancies me or he has forgiven me...should i text him back what should i put so he still likes and respects me...pleaase help i want him back he waas sooo the right guy just at the wrong time

If u were inmy shoes what would u say to him to regain his interest in u. I have seen him out a few times & he has starred at me i get the feeling he just doesnt know what to make of me how do i become irrisstable

Answer 1

You asked this earlier!

Was the answers not helpful??? xXx

Answer 2

regrettably, darling, i do no longer think of that he the two fancies or has forgiven you. easily if he knew which you have been dealing with a annoying time he might've helped you or a minimum of asked you to tell him approximately it, inspite of the undeniable fact that it would not sound that he did and it would not sound that he cares or respects you and to be user-friendly i might forget approximately him as he definately ain't nicely worth it. i might attempt and make certain regardless of own and expert matters you have first and then initiate the seek lower back for a good bloke. the final element you prefer is to flow throughout the time of the comparable stuff lower back. you could think of he became the astonishing guy, yet time will instruct and instruct that he wasn't.

Answer 3

OK Hun:

Do you really care for this guy - or are you just upset because he didn't flip for you the first time out - because you were distractred by how things were going at work - so much so, that you could'nt let it go, and it spilled over into your date, and you ended up acting like a ditz? Naturally, he didn't have a clue to why you were behaving strangely - and it sounds like for some reason - I really can not understand - you decided not to tell him. So rather than be smart and let him in on why you were out of sorts and distracted that evening - you blew it, kept mum, and " acted weird". What the Hell did you expect him to make of you?

What would you have thought if your positions were reversed? Wouldn't you have been talking to all your girl friends the next moring about this cute guy you went out with last night who turned out to be a weirdo - which was such a shame - becuase he was such a little hottie - and you really would have like to have . . . .but he was just to ; ; ; you konw - out there , - creepy like.

Or, are you going to be a grown up about this, and confront the situation like an adult? Here's what I would do:

Find out where you can "run into" this guy, in a place where you can talk to him for a few minutes at least - and not interrupt him on his way to somewhere, (a class, - to work - whatever); if you know him - call him up and just ask him to meet at a neutral spot for a quick cup of coffee or a drink - but you need at least 5 minutes to talk to him.

Got that done? Good, Next grab a few daisys, three to be precis, mix in a little baby's breath, add some green's, and tie the whole thing up with a ltlle yellow lace bow, (very feminie) - spay a little of your scent on the bow. Take the bouquet with you to the meeting.

Before the meeting get yourself looking, feeling, & smelling good, if you can afford a trip to the stylist and nail shop do it, get your make-up done, go to a shop that specializes in up scale casual clothes and get a new outfit that makes you feel like the sexiest most beautiful woman in the world. if you feel like it - you will look like it. Can't afford all that -Don't worry girl friend - what are friend's for? You must have friends or family that can help. A girl friend who is great at make up, a niece whose hair is always perfect, a cousin whose nails are to die for, an aunt who is your size, and has the best wardrobe in town , tell them about the boy and ask for their help - you will be suprised at their willingness to help out. Don't forget about the boy's and men in you family either - they can find out what he likes - where he hangs, what he's in to. - things it's nice for a lady to know.

Then meet with the guy.. BE HONEST. Tell him that you feel bad about how you acted the last time you were together and why - what was going on at work, and you were so sorry that you let it affect your eveing together, and that you felft so stupid that it did, that you couldn't bring yourself to tell him why - fearing that he would think you were just a silly girl - who let things get to her - etc - etc. Tell him you're really not that woman/girl and that you wanted him to know that, and that you are attacted to hin and wanted him to know that too, and maybe you can start all over again?

If he agrees - then turn on the charm & sex and ire-ntroduce yourself, extend your hand to take his, and offer him the flowers as a show of your affection, and accompany that with a buzz- kiss on his cheek - (right next to his lips) . where you two go from there is up to you two. Good luck.

Answer 4

Well 1st off was u drinking when u went out? And ma be don't remember what happen or said he's still your mate.And yes I think u are forgiven.I'm sure this has happen before Good Luck.

Answer 5

Maybe he was just playing around. Im kinda like anywayz, maybe he is just seeing if you have a sense of humor. Just relax

Answer 6

Just back off and wait. If you have a shot, he will come to you.

Answer 7

take care means he's not interested

Answer 8

Ya, you're weird!!!