same person, same question.. except: i do love my man, and we do do it in crazy places, different positions.. all that, and its fun. (and i have thought of another guy while i've been with my boyfriend.. future husband) but i want the adrenaline rush, and i want that excitement at the same time, staying with my man (when we have sex its not the same, because we CAN have sex) i'm talking about the. not allowed, nobody knows, exciting, one time deal kind of sex with a guy you've known for ages with that built up sexual tension.
2006-11-23 06:05:09 · 21 answers · asked by Samantha N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be a jackass, dump the guy you want for sex and go with the guy you think of alot.
2006-11-23 06:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't ready for marriage. Not by a long shot. So don't rush into anything. You need to leave your boyfriend and take some time to explore what else is out there. You may even realize how much you love your boyfriend and how silly you are for wanting to find someone else. Just remember when you cheat things will never be the same between you and him. And it will almost always end up in the demise of your relationship.
2006-11-23 06:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by jmethod81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously don't want to spend the rest of your life with your future husband. It's normal to think of other people while in the act, but to actually want to f*ck that other person. Your nasty. You don't deserve the man your with. And it's never a one time thing no one will ever know. Because you AND the other man will know. And the only way you could keep that from your current man, and act like nothing happened, your a sosiopath.
2006-11-23 06:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go do it in some UNFAMILIAR RISKY place. Doya think that would take care of your adrenaline rush??? Or maybe he'd be interested in a 3 some......If sex is all that it's cracked up to be, why are earth are so many trying to IMPROVE IT???
2006-11-23 06:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating isn't as fun as you think it might be... The excitement soon fades and your left with yourself to deal with and all the guilt that comes with it... It's really not worth it in the end and you only hurt yourself because it all comes back on you... It really isn't worth destroying anothers heart over your own selfish needs...
2006-11-23 06:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt like the other answers? you sound committed to do it. I say tell your boy about your need for another pole inside you and get a threesome going, that way you can be honest and a tramp at the same time.
2006-11-23 06:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cheat your relationship will never be the same. But it seems that you have already made your mind up so go and do it already
2006-11-23 06:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by floydsimpalass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a socially unacceptable pleasure in the Western world...
You will destroy any meaningful relationship you have ...
2006-11-23 06:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to accept that you have issues...deal with them if you love your boyfriend/future husband so you don't hurt him
2006-11-23 06:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by someone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are legally married there is no such thing as cheating.
2006-11-23 06:22:14 · answer #10 · answered by ccameronbeaty78 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋