Is it a turnoff when a girl is somewhat taller or somewhat bigger? I have a boyfriend, but people say the only reson he likes me is because he feels sorry for me. I just dont know what to do.
2006-11-23 06:02:17 · 12 answers · asked by basketball_912 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Those people are mean, jealous and cruel.
Don't listen to them. Everyone is attracted to different things. Your bf is with you because you possess qualities that he likes. Whether it be your looks (which I consider a bonus), personality, or intelligence.
Stop being insecure about how you look. I guarantee the so called beauty queens are also stressing about the way they look. Trust me, no matter how beautiful you are, there is always someone else out there that is prettier than you are. If the guy you're with only cares about looks, then he doesn't deserve to be with you anyways. Relax.
2006-11-23 06:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would a guy like you because he feels sorry for you? He likes you because he likes you. Guys have differnt tastes maybe he likes tall women or slightly bigger ones. In my experience as a guy I usually go for what I like!.
Never mind what other people say. Go for what you want and see what happens.
2006-11-23 14:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, You need to come out and ask your boyfriend if he only likes you because he feels sorry for you, or does he like you for who you are. He might not have liked you in the beginning, but maybe he likes you now through affection.
2006-11-23 14:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by Pete S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to the haters they're just jealous height isn't that big of an issue really
2006-11-23 14:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not a turn off. Now, do you really care about what people think? They are just insecure or jealous...
2006-11-23 14:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by redsox3770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i'm not a guy, but that is so mean!!! i know that a lot of teen guys are like toothpicks. but that's no reason for people to say that aobut you and him. it's disgusting.
let them know that size doesn't matter. chances are they are just jealous. kiss your bf for me!
2006-11-23 14:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to some its a turn on(like me) to some its intimidating, who cares what the people are saying? how tall are you, any where around 6'3"
2006-11-23 14:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as bigger doesn't mean hefty.
Hott is hott, a girls thats 6'2-160lbs is still hott.
I like big girls, just not ones that roll away.
2006-11-23 14:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys like tall some like small but i like them all
2006-11-23 16:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by hill bill y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don\'t think these are turnoff for guys
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2006-11-23 14:07:20 · answer #10 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋