i've been with my 1st love for 3 years, and he's the only man i've ever been with. we've been thinking about engagement (when we both graduate from college).. but i'm not physically happy the way i used to be. has anyone cheated and gotten away with it? was it worth it? was it fun? i think i just like the attention from this other guy, idk what to do. (i dont want to loose my boyfriend either... he's such an amazing boyfriend.. theres no way of breaking up i tried that before and i couldnt, andd he wouldn't let me)
2006-11-23 05:58:07 · 18 answers · asked by Samantha N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO. Cheating hurt.
2006-11-23 05:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
cheating is never the way to go ... if you feel like the attention from someone else is good, then you and your boyfriend have some issues. Maybe he isn't paying enough attention to you and you feel that you need to get it from elsewhere. Either way don't cheat it will make you feel guilty and the only way to get away from that guilt is to tell him, or you'll get caught, either way you will loose a relationship that you truly value. What you should do is sit down and have a serious discussion and tell him that you need ......( fill in the blank) and if it still doesn't work then maybe you two weren't meant for each other. True love means that you wouldn't even consider being with another person. If you tried breaking up and he wouldn't let you then that is a different story.... The fastest way to break up with someone that wont let you it to cheat... the only thing that I don't understand is if you wanted to break up with him then why would you worry about him catching you cheating?
2006-11-23 14:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jessy82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating may be fun for some people but for most in the long run they feel the bad after effects and yes people do cheat and get away with it but sometimes the person that cheated ends up teeling the person they cheated on.
2006-11-23 14:09:16 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant u people be serious about your relationships? every second person is coming up with the same problem. u said "he's the only guy i've ever been out with" n then u like the attention from the other guy..... God u r such a jerk. when u r not faithful to your bf then do u think the other guy is going to be faithful to u????
2006-11-23 14:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you cheat on him you might feel like your'e living on the edge like a little kid with a match and gas. You also might feel horrible and get a really bad feeling in your stomach like you ate a live spider. If you do before you get engaged you might want to tell him or it could haunt you forever. Seriously! But if you think it's worth it than that's fine. Or you could tell him how you really feel and he might be able to fulfill your needs. Maybe if this is really a problem you could try praying. It always helped me.
2006-11-23 14:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by Sanford skater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, this is the truth.. Sex with someone new is wild passionate , hot and totally different.. The issue is more of a delema .. I did it once and wouldnt do it again.. Once you loose the trust there is no turning back.I couldnt live with my self after the fact.. I will never do it again. The way to really think about it is like this if he did it to you how would you feel or your dad did it to my mom.. Thats your answer
2006-11-23 14:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by canadianchipndales 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is start using your head. AND your moral values. And if both those fail, then take a break from the only guy you've ever known, and get it all out of your system. Then see if ya feel any better for the experience.
2006-11-23 14:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i havent cheated before - ever. Or maybe it depends on the person, because im too emphatic and i wouldnt want to be cheated so i dont do it to others.
I dont think its fun, coz altho you'd feel elated bein with the other guy or youre ego will have a boost coz two men likes you at the same time, still its nopt really a pleasant feeling.
your BF seems nice, why cheat on him.
2006-11-23 14:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by queenbee_tch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to lose your bf, then don't cheat on him. Instead of looking elsewhere to be 'physically happy' tell your guy what you want and what you like. Communication will do wonders for your relationship.
If you're too embarrassed to tell the guy you plan to marry how to please you and fulfill your needs, he may not be the Mr Perfect in your life that you think he is.
2006-11-23 14:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I left girls after I ****ed them, so that I won't have trouble having fun later with other girls. Its a good idea cuz literally I'm not cheating so its not a sin and I can keep on **** **** **** and even more ****ing the hot jucy girls.
2006-11-23 14:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by I did ur women 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the adrenoline rush is run, the guilt, not so much, next time u sleep with ur man, think of someone else, just dont accidently call out another name, this way your satisfied
2006-11-23 14:01:57 · answer #11 · answered by ruspecialenuf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋