I asked my boyfriend if he was mad at me and he said this: Nah baby I'm just numb at being the "asshole bf who has misled his gf
into a relationship that she really had no clue about , because if she
had known she would definitely not have gotten into it but this loser bf
didn't let her know nothing in advance ". . . " it is such a surprise
that its soo totally unfair and so shame on that bf and he gets what he
asked for cuz he made all that happen!"
What's this mean??
2006-11-23 05:52:49 · 12 answers · asked by *~*~*~* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel sick to my stomach.
2006-11-23 06:01:21 · update #1
it means this guy's a loser you should getrid of asap! he's blaming others for not being somebody -- something only he can do.. treat yourself better gf.. lose this dude
2006-11-23 05:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by dedeshry1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is trying to tell you he is a loser, and if you would have know this in the beginning you would have not gone out with him. He feels gulity that he mislead, and the problems lies within him, and not you. Basically he is stating I get what I want by any means possible. There are a lot of guys out their just like him. The only two things that make a relationship last, are love and honesty. Remember this quote always: There are always men who are boys, there are always men who are fools. But an honorable man will tell anyone he messed up, and take the concequences of his actions in strive. Try and find this kind of man.
2006-11-23 14:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by Pete S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apart from the fact that your man is a bit crazy he is trying to tell you something. I do not know what it is. Maybe he did something. Or maybe something has happened that could really have a bad impact on your relationship.
2006-11-23 13:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has self esteem issues or guilt-he either believes that you are to good for him and he fooled you into dating him or he has done something that makes him feel guilty and he no longer thinks he deserves you...you need to find out which one it is! Sounds like he's playing games-tell him to be more straight forward and get to the point-best wishes!
2006-11-23 14:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by laura_lovely_sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he just wanted to have sex with you at the beginning of the relationship. But now he is in love with you, and he feels bad that he was in the relationship just for sex, and he believes anything bad happening to him in his life is something he deserves, becuase he feels bad about his initial motive in the relationship.
2006-11-23 14:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you asked HIM???
It's difficult trying to second guess someone who makes no sense. Other than it sounds like he's having his own personal pity party, and expects you to fall hook, line, n sinker.
2006-11-23 13:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is calling you clueless girl. He sounds like a real mind ****** get out soon or he will pull you down with him.
He sounds like a stoner.
2006-11-23 14:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he is hiding something from you quite important and is feeling pretty bad about it. Why don't you ask him? Communication works!
2006-11-23 13:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by lady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't know but he sounds crazy
2006-11-23 13:55:25 · answer #9 · answered by markmisslindsay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that he's an idiot. get rid of him, and find yourself a real man.
2006-11-23 13:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Samantha N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋