2006-11-23 05:49:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not bad your first time, just a bit uncomfortable. It hurts somewhat, but not so much that you should be scared to do it, or never do it again. You'll most likely bleed a little bit. Just make sure you take it slow. You'll REALLY enjoy it by say, your second or third time. Who knows, you might not hurt at all..........and love it the first time. Everyone is different
2006-11-23 05:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on a lot of different things like one the size of the guy, Two your flexible I hope, three if you are also calm and relaxed. You have to be calm and try to relax when you first start. If you don't your body will not open up and it would really hurt!! if you go by this guide I am sure with out a doubt that your first time would be enjoyable!!
Happy Thanksgiving!!
2006-11-23 05:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by Elle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it was quite painful the first time, luckily my boyf was very gentle and just stopped and held me until i wanted to carry on. Dont be scared of the pain because it is natural and if you love your partner the feeling of having him inside you will make up for it. By the third or fourth time it will stop feeling strange and start to feel nice. You will only really enjoy it if you feel comfortable and secure with your partner, if this is the case then maybe after the third or fourth time. Good luck!
2006-11-23 11:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first time is not usually the best time, it does hurt quite a lot for the girl because the hymen is broken, which may cause some bleeding...however not all girls bleed their first time. Well on a personal note my first time wasn't great becasue of all the above, but the next few times were smashing.
Take care, and don't worry about it ( thats if you are worried at all)
:)
2006-11-23 06:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by nicky_bronx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a bloke it's magic the first time.
It's only when you you've done it a few times you realise that it was absolutely terrible.
For a girl make sure you like the person coz use men are just after a screw first.
So go for someone with a little experience it'll be more enjoyable
2006-11-23 06:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by willygromit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't lie to you...it's painful the first time.
You start to enjoy it when you are old enough to appreciate it and you are with someone who loves you in return.
Wait, honey...you have all the time in the world and there is NOTHING worse than a missed period and the whole scare that results from that when you're active at a young age.
2006-11-23 06:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by vegetable soup 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The girl gets various degrees of pain the first time and maybe the next few times, the guy doesn't hurt, he's just clumsy until he gets the hang of it. No pun intended.
2006-11-23 05:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can give emotional pain or physical. Always better in a long term relationship (because you get to know each other). Most folk remember their first - so make sure you choose wisely.
2006-11-23 05:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always bad if you're doing it before you're married (and obviously, this requires a deeper understanding beyond what "feels good" according to the Liberal Doctrine of Insanity).
2006-11-23 05:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always do it after marriage and u will like it everytime other wise like all others you will always be worried in ur life and never satisfied. Save yourself for your husband. Else you will also get husband who has already been tasted by many. The biggest reason of cheating is that everyone wants to taste maximum.
2006-11-23 06:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋