2006-11-23 05:29:37 · 26 answers · asked by botan1686 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't call it dating. I call it chatting. That's the risk you take meeting people on the internet. You really don't know who you're talking to. You may think you're talking to a man & talking to a woman or a little boy. You just never know until you meet. Keep that in mind. Don't fall for a fantasy. A lot of people on the internet will tell you what you wanna hear.
2006-11-23 05:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard question because as the person below/above me stated you can't really be dating if you haven't met yet. Personally I have met people online and have ended up in a relationship with them. First of all, I would suggest that you both have webcams so you know that you're talking to who you THINK you're talking to.
Go with your gut. If you think something is wrong with this guy then odds are you're probably right. For safety reasons if you choose to meet this guy make sure it is in public and even bring a friend along. Be careful but have fun.
2006-11-23 05:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by ←Shea→ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take anything he says too seriously until we have met face to face . People can pretend to be anyone they want over the net. There are alot of crazy people out there and then again there are some equally as nice ones. I met my fiance on line and we have been together for two years. When he and I met it was in a neutral place..the Mall and I had a chance to question him and see if I picked up any negative vibes. Turns out he was open and honest about things and he's a wonderful guy. I don't see anything wrong about finding someone on line, but just be cautious and don't take everything they say as truth until you meet them and get to really know them on a personal basis. Be careful and I pray all works out for you both.
2006-11-23 05:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no "dating" unless you have meet him! Internet has made us believe that "REAL LOVE" can be found by typing words in a chat room... There needs to be the essence, the timid smiles, the flirt, the soft voice whispering in your ear, love needs two bodies to feel connected in some way. You may like the way He writes and describes you things but You need to really know him in order to say that YOU are dating him. He may be lying He may be not.... but also remember that it is very dangerous to see someone you met in the internet. Be cautious and try to meet him a public place.!!! Good luck!
2006-11-23 05:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, do not get too involved until you have physically met. there are so many perverts out there you have no idea, just go to google and you will be surprised. He may be genuine, but rather be cautious initially! Remember one thing, it is always easy to remember the truth than remember a lie. All you need to do to find out if he is genuine, is ask some personal questions, and ask them again in a few weeks. Make out you forgot what he said about something in particular and you will soon see what you are in for. Just be careful! good luck hope it works for you!
2006-11-23 05:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is wrong to do that do you no how many people are kidnaped because they meet people of the internet i suggest u b smart and tell them that u cant dat pplz off the internet that you dont no. infact even if ur talkin 2 ur friends on msn u should tell them if they wanna go some where then they have to call u it not smart 2 do stuff lke that. u should be smart and and show ur parents ur responsible its a grate way 2 gain ur prnts trust. by doin this ur prnts will lets u do more things and give u more freedom people will back off once they realize ur smart and that ur not stupid and that u dont do stuff like that. tell him srry but i don really no u and i think its best if we dont go out its probably best not 2 talk 2 them any more. don talk 2 strangers
2006-11-23 05:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by Gossip Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with that, but the only way to know is giving time to the relationship...if you want to meet in person, just be careful...there are always signs if he is lieing or not, follow your instincts.BTW i met my husband in the Internet and we are very happy, but everything needs time.
2006-11-23 05:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by lovetoyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you r willing to date a guy from the net u might want to keep in mind that he might b lieing.......i suggest u meet sometime in a public crowded place so if he is weird u can always tell some1 and get away.....dating on the net can b good my sis and mom both got married with guys on the net....just keep ur tongue tied and b very careful
2006-11-23 05:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by book luver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you actually seen this guy on web-cam, how long have you been chatting to him.
Have you spoken to him on the phone, these are questions you have to answer before we can answer your question!!
You have to make sure you are safe whatever happens, maybe if you want to meet, go with a couple of friends, just make sure someone else knows where you are going as-well.
Hope this helps a little bit, I'm sure you are going to get plenty more answers on here just be careful.
2006-11-23 05:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by vicksta75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!
two years ago when my cousin was 15, she started "dating" a guy online who said he was 18, well he finally convinced her to meet him, and he came and picked her up, she had called out of school to meet him, somethning didnt seem right, my cousin usually told me when she was stayuing home, well at lunch i tried calling her, and her mom said she went to school, and had just left, well i shared an afternoon class with my cousin and didnt see her so i figured she was skipping.
at about 6 that night her mom came over to my house freaking out, saying kaylyn never came home, and i told her she never went to school, so we went to her house were her sister in law found a phone number and room number to a hotel. we went through my cousins emails and found him, called the hotel, and he answered the phone, after he answered we called the police and went to the hotel, to find my cousin not there, and her cloths there.
we were really freaked out, and the next day, my cousin was found dead by a 50 YEAR OLD INTERNET CHILD HUNTER!!!!
look im not saying all men are like this, but just be careful
2006-11-23 05:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by ruspecialenuf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋