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My twin boys age nearly 4yrs have a friend that they see nearly every day he is nearly 5yrs.
They have started to pull there pants down to sit on eachothers face.At first they were all just doing it and now the 5yr old is asking my sons to do it to him he lies down and asks them to sit on him.
This is not good they have all been told how worng it is but they still do it. Any ideas on how to stop this would be great, We have now told them they are not alould to see eachother for a few days.
His mother and i dont know what to do!!!! can anyone help??????

2006-11-23 05:07:23 · 10 answers · asked by kelly H 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Toddler & Preschooler

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LOL!!! Aren't boys GREAT!!! :) Just stick to your guns and continue to separate them if the behavior continues.....Ya know...chances are they will probably still be doing it in high school! Except in high school it is a joke to play on someone and it's called an Atomic Sit Up! BOYS ARE GROSS!! I know, I have two and I am am married to one! Just wait until they start torturing each other with body odors that they have trapped in 2 liter bottles!
Good luck!

2006-11-23 05:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 1 0

the 5 yr old seems to be the one instigating all of this,3 yr old boys are easily led, and if a bigger boy has asked them to do this then they will see no wrong in doing it, first you need to work out a plan with the 5 yr olds mum, maybe sit all of the kids down together and explain that what they are doing is wrong, if that doesnt work than you would probably be better off splitting them up.
thing is you should not have to worry about it, kids will in sometime in there childhood liking to go around with nothing on and will take there clothes off at any given moment, with that one you just have to ride the storm, putting there clothes back on/or not depending whr you are and eventually they will stop.

2006-11-23 06:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by nathsven 1 · 0 0

Unfortunately this is normal behavior for little boys. We as adults have to try to remember how inhibited we were as children about bearing our parts to the world. Maybe it would help if you sit the boys down and explain to them why it is not an appropriate way to play with one another. Simply telling them that it is wrong may encourage the behavior. Do stick to your guns if the boys continue to do it then have them separated. First try time-outs where they all sit in different corners of the room without playing for 5 minutes. Each time they do it, have them go to time out. Warn them ahead of time that if they pull down their pants and sit on one another, then the play date will immediately stop. Then you and the other mom need to stick to that. Gradually, the boys will stop doing it, because they will want to play with one another.

Before the boys play together again, talk to them and explain that it cannot happen again. And that they will be restricted from playing together for X number of days if it happens again.

2006-11-23 05:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by Meesh 3 · 0 0

i does no longer placed your son in diapers, although i'd placed a goodnight underpants on him at bedtime. My advice to you is to make sure a timer over the subsequent couple of days previously college starts and tell your son that once the bell earrings he needs to bypass potty. deliver the instructor of his classification besides because the nurse a be conscious explaining what the topic is so as that perchance you could deliver in better underpants and pants for him if he has an twist of destiny at school. i'd also no longer draw a lot interest to it otherwise, even as he has an twist of destiny purely tell him ok bypass substitute and placed your outfits contained in the washer or in a bag or inspite of the actuality that. If he has to modify himself each and every time wets he wil develop into discouraged and may want to provide up wetting in the course of the day a minimum of. attempt now to not humiliate him in the front of persons even his sister, he's already humiliated adequate and by letting him substitute himself he will experience self humiliation. It sounds to me like your son is purely dealing with element of transition starting up kindergarten and all, be affected human being and supplies you him time. If he does have a susceptible bladder this may proceed for years.

2016-11-29 09:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Yep, they are definitely boys!
I have two, they are always doing gross stuff like this. Last night Miachel, who is 6, found a dead mouse in the storage shed and decided that i would like to find it in my bed! Then my other son Derin told his little sister that daddy accidentally cut off her penis instead of the umbilical cord!

Not much you can do, boys will be boys!
Try telling them that if they pull down their pants then the belt monster will give 'em a good lashing, no, just discourage them from doing this.

Last year we were at the park and my two year old took off his pants and started running around saying that there was a snake on his a*s!

Make him wear overalls that buckle in the back until he stops!

Good luck, and just remember, there boys and they will do stupid crap like this until they become a father!

2006-11-23 12:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by baby oh's 3 · 0 0

Have you tried distracting them with something else altogether that even more fun? Or changing the game a little bit so it's not so rude.

Like "Oh my god boys, I'm so glad that you're doing that because mummy would REALLY be shocked if you sucked eachothers noses. That would be terrible.... Thank goodness you're too good to do that.

2006-11-23 07:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by How many questions can there be? 3 · 0 0

make them wear diapers for a few days and tell them every time they do it they will be put back in diapers until they stop doing it if that dos not work put them in diapers and a little girls dress and tights and tell them they will were that until they stop doing it

2006-11-23 05:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by stks_ryn 2 · 1 0

tell them is not nice to show people their goodies and not to play that way and i also suggest that you don't let the five year old play with your kids

2006-11-23 05:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by chuy 4 · 0 0

I would tell them that if they keep doing it that if will get cold and fall off..then ask them how they plan to pee?? LOL

2006-11-23 05:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by rkonkin226 4 · 0 0

They sit on eachothers faces??

Put vodka on theirs butts so when it happens they taste it and go ewww!!

They will never do it again.

2006-11-23 05:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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