2006-11-23 04:57:21 · 16 answers · asked by neena k 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
One thing that would work like magic would be if he had a friend or neighbor his age that he got in really tight with. The other person would lead him in directions you can't. Just be sure the other kid isn't lazy or the dare devil sort who might be a gang member in waiting.
You might also check out your local YMCA. :)
2006-11-23 05:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by Chuck S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it's laziness and not depression people/kids suffer from depression appear lazy . If he isn't interested in sports of some sort like basket ball hockey, soccer isn't then that is usually a good sign of depression. He doesn't ncessarily has to watch them but he should some times play .It's some thing to think about. Also does he sleep a lot.
2006-11-23 05:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How active are you with your child? If you invite your 7 year old to go outside for a little while and play together, they may get up and move around. If you are crunched for time, have your 7 year old help with the chores.
My 2 year old is extremely helpful to me, often to the point of annoyance because I don't always ask for his help. For him, helping me when I am doing house chores is a way for him to spend time with me. I never ask him to do more than he is capable of doing. By us getting the chores done together, that frees up time for us to play together outside. Being a single mom, those are the things that will make the difference in how active my son is or is not.
2006-11-23 05:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by Meesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laziness in young age can be caused due to many reasons. A new toy or a new friend can break the kid's boredom.Try Activity Toys like Jigsaw puzzle etc. Also try a healty diet rich in Omega 3 fatty acid like tofu and other forms of soybeans, canola, walnut and flaxseed, and their oils.
2006-11-23 05:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by emmanuel_arthur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sports is a good answer, but have you ever considered combining sports with a mental discipline? I have two boys, aged 8 and 11, and 2 years ago I got them involved with Tai Kwon Do, a form of self defence that is non-violent, and heavy on practise, discipline and self-awareness. My boys enjoy it immensely and have gained both self confidence as well as the ability to defend them selves. They have also got away from the x-box and are discovering a world around them. In my day we played outdoors from dawn to past dusk, and I am trying to instill in them a sense of that. Of course with sexual predators on the streets, they can never experience the life I knew as a child, but if I can make them taste a bit of it, maybe they will eshew the computer for the field behind the house. Just my rambling thoughts. Yours Michael.
2006-11-23 05:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by em.jay_39 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he/she watch a lot of tv? So many kids nowadays don't want to do anything but watch tv or sit & play video games. Also, diet has a lot to do with laziness or sluggishness. If people let their kids eat whatever they want they won't be as energetic & will be less likely to be active & do the things they need to do. I suggest assigning small chores around the house, like having them pick up after themselves, pick up their bedroom, etc. Get his/her energy level up by taking them to a park where they can run around. As long as they are active & you teach them discipline they won't be as lazy.
2006-11-23 05:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by lop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about such a thing in a seven year old. This implies the kid refuses to do work or chores you ask of him or her, and therefore represents laziness in your judgement. Your child is not an adult to be ordered around. Your child also has free will.
2006-11-23 05:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! A lazy seven year old? that's sad! I thought they would have to grow up and be a teen before that happens! Maybe he's just tired from school? Or something could be bothering him. I know alot of seven year olds and they seem far from it!
2006-11-23 06:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My son is 7 years old. Take him to the library and see what events are going on, like ours "board game day every monday night" Take him to Putt Putt, go bowling, take him roller skating. Go to a new park. Play base ball with him outside or football.
If he's playing games (PSP2, etc) take it away, it'll take 2 to 3 weeks to get over it but his attitude will change! I did it and so can you!1
2006-11-23 05:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by DrPepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find out let me know. I have a 17 year old with the same problem
2006-11-23 04:59:07 · answer #10 · answered by Donna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋