OK, THIS IS HOW IT IS:EVERY TIME I AM DATING A NEW GUY, THE GUY I LOVE ALWAYS TRIES TALKING TO ME WHEN HE FINDS OUT IM IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP. I AM TIRED OF THESE TYPES OF SITUATIONS B/C I HAVE LOST TWO GREAT GUYS BECAUSE OF THIS. I ALWAYS THINK HE'S GONNA STAY BUT HE END UP LEAVING ME AGAIN AND DOESNT EVEN CALL ME OR TEXTS ME UNTIL ONCE AGAIN HE KNOWS I START DATING. WHAT IS WRONG WITH HIM??? I MEAN IM A GREAT GIRL, SMART, PRETTY, GOOD, I DONT GO OUT MUCH AND IM IN COLLEGE WHAT IS WRONG WITH HIM HE HAS THE PERFECT GIRL BUT YET HE LEAVES ME.
2006-11-23 04:56:37 · 18 answers · asked by delicious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Baby, he has pissed on you and you are his teritory. When another male comes around you, he comes back to guard his teritory! That's what that is. Now that aside, it is all about conquest and submission. He knows he has conquered you and it seems to me he has proven it a few times here. Now he's done, thanks for playing good bye. STOP SUBMITTING! You need to play hard to get. You need to e-x-t-e-n-d this conquest period over a much longer time. You need to be the one who is in control. And I'm sure you can do it. Date another guy, a mean looking guy, one who could kick the crap out of the guy you love. Don't worry you aint gonna hurt him, but you will get his attention. When loverboy calls you, act like you are having such a great time and tell him you have to go. Say bye and hang up. Next time he calls don't answer, don't call him back. By now he will be going crazy and it will be all over you. His safe little "possession" will have fallen out of his pocket and he will expend considerable effort to get it... you back.
2006-11-23 05:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you leave another person for that boy. When you are in a relationship don't leave it until you get ready! He is doing this because he knows that he affects you and that he can string you along and have you there when he wants you and leave you when he doesn't. It is a display of power. When you start a relationship you enjoy and don't entertain ANYTHING he has to say. The best of luck and BE STRONG!
2006-11-23 05:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by jonesty1284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be acting in an evil way, no doubt about it, but one thing is obvious, you both are too young to know what you relly want. If he knew what he wanted and who he wanted he wouldn't do that to you once you are involved in a new relationship. But on the other way, I think that if you really were as mature as you think you are (I used to think that way too), you would not be dating boy just because you cannot be with the one you want, 'cause I'm sure those guys don't deserve being played that way.
2006-11-23 05:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by Kimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you said you date guys. Word of advice, date a man who treats you like a Lady. But also act like a Lady.
2006-11-23 04:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by bubbles_grandpa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not wondering whats wrong with him, because that kinda seems obvious. Hes an idiot. But I am wondering, whats wrong with you? Its you who keeps going back no matter how badly hes treated you. This guy is messing with you life to entertain himself.
2006-11-23 04:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone leaves you, then they are not right, if a guy only wants you when your dating someone else, thats useless
if you want one specific guy, then ask him. Be faithfull to whoever your dating, if your with someone, then do your best to make that go, the other guy seems like a flake...
2006-11-23 05:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by head_banger_yyc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are affair to commit themslves,have fun, but be careful,you will know when the right guy comes into your life.it's a game right now. yes a bad game at that.dont let them hurt you or make you hate men in general.
2006-11-23 05:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you found the wrong man.
The question is not what is wrong with, but to find the right man for you.
2006-11-23 04:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by I.T. Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about this idiot and just keep searching for another great guy
2006-11-23 05:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
these guys are chasing yuo because they still like you.
just take it easy with the guys.
consentrate on work then when your ready, do what you have to do.
2006-11-23 05:03:34 · answer #10 · answered by Bo M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋