what are instant turnoffs for girls?

Question

what do guys do to ruin their chances?
what could they do instead?
generalizing is ok..

Answer 1

When a guy talks down to me or lies. Big turnoff. If I look fat, I want to know it. If I am incorrect, I want to know it. If I ask for help with a problem, I want help. I don't want just listening. I want the respect and intimacy that comes with trust and truth. Sex is much better when you have that mutual respect. Everything is better.

Secondly, when a guy asks me why I am entirely unlike what he read about in John Gray's Mars and Venus book. This has happened to me 10+ times.

The answer is because I am a real human female, not a stereotype in a book that was written to ensure the wealth of the author, who will continue to make money only insofar as men do not succeed with women. Ironic isn't it? He gives bad advice to ensure guys will keep buying. Clever businessman! I should hire him...

Answer 2

I think most of the faux pas incidents that men commit are breaches of respect for the woman as a person. Obviously, one is not going to pass gas, belch, spit, or pick one's nose in public. But there are other things that turn women off that many men don't realize. Make sure the conversation isn't one-sided, for instance. It doesn't impress anybody, and can sound arrogant. Make a point of asking her views on the topic in question as it will show you respect her as a person. Also, when at a restaurant, refrain from ordering her food for her. It may come across as controlling or treating her like a child. Instead, have her order first. It will make her feel special while incorporating the custom of "ladies first". This is by no means a complete list. And what works for one woman may well turn another one off. If in doubt, ask the woman. That by far is the most respectful thing a man can do for her.

Answer 3

Acting like sex is all he wants. Talking about ex-wives or girlfriends is a big turn off. When men do this a girl just wants to rub mud on his stupid face. Breaking promises is another sure way of making a girl red hot mad. Telling lies and cheating spells the end. Instead they could be honest-caring-thoughtful-talk about things in life that they enjoy.(not things they enjoyed with someone else)-be faithful and keep their promises.

Answer 4

Jumping the sex gun before the girl is ready. Doing nice gentlemenly things is good, like opening doors and goofy things like that.

Answer 5

Poor hygiene: long fingernails, really bad breath, un-brushed teeth, dirty hair, B.O.......
Smart mouth: thinking their funny be cutting her down, thinking it's a joke.
Hope this helps.

Answer 6

the worst thing a guy can do is act like he is scared of the girl....


being too shy or weak is a turn off...

Answer 7

this guy i like, we flirt and say naughty stuff to each other. but sometimes talking about sex ALL the time is like a major turn off, like for example, i love your hair can i tie it to my peepee?
i mean what the hell..hahah :)

Answer 8

1. Bad breath
2. Not doing what he said he would.

They should try to just be themselves and not be afraid to talk bout them self but not too much.

Answer 9

when guys say: "I'm usually not this tall but now I'm standing on my wallet" :)) cheap lines turn me off. and lies. and acting like a jerk. and not listening when I talk. and... you pretty much got the picture right?

Answer 10

bad breath, no manners, a stalker, and looks a mess. just be yourself don't be fake cuz us girls can tell.