In my family we were raised nosy money questions are personal....some people i know do not think so...BUT I DO>..why would a guy ask you...'HOW MUCH MONEY DO YOU MAKE?"...and you say.."You know, i would rather keep that PERSONAL....">and he continues to ask stuff that is off limits ...cuz you are nice????and believe it or not...the fool ....says.."when was the last time you had sex!!!!????"Now by this time if, if he was looking at me...I was in SHOCK!!! i just answered politely..."i do not .know...i feel that is off-limits..."...first of all you do not really know me???"...The problem is the guy did not think anything of WHAT HE ASKED????!! GO FIGURE...SHOULD I HAVE SAID BEEN MORE ASSERTIVE AND SAID WHAT?????HELP IN CASE IT HAPPENS AGAIN...(THE IDIOT IS OUT OF MY LIFE)...THANKS BE TO GOD!!!
2006-11-23 04:49:25 · 10 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him to p*ss off!!!! its none of his business! say "why r u asking me first ladies go first....when was last time u had sex...he will be beginning to sweating man! hahahaha lol x
2006-11-23 04:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people just do not have the same values as you were raised with. There is nothing wrong with letting people know that it's personal and as such is none of their business in a polite way. Some folks actually believe that it's their right to know the answer to these personal questions when in fact it is not.
2006-11-23 04:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money and sex are two key ways that guys establish pecking orders, by him asking you about both I would say he is desperate to find a way he is better than you. The next time he or anyone else asks you just say " I'll tell you what you want to hear- a dollar less than you or -its been longer than the last time you did it, oh yeah and my girl was uglier than yours too.- Does that make you happy". He will feel stupid and petty and you will keep what you want private.
2006-11-23 04:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever heard the word psychological telepathy ? in case you may talk with others via thoughts concerns between living persons, animals, flowers, etc. and the ineffective ones ... then religious communications can by no skill be impossible. Why ? simply by fact spirits is only beside you speaking. have you ever by no skill felt physique hair tingling while something touches and speaking with you ? If an undemanding human, animals or any spirits can do communications with all and numerous ... then, how plenty greater the All efficient & Almighty writer (of Heaven, Earth & all living issues interior it and the human race ? ) not something is impossible with a God !
2016-10-12 23:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I have found an answer that stops them in there tracks and puts them on the defensive instead of you. I simply say, "Why do you ask?" It will put them on the spot and hopefully make them stop and think. Some people are so insensitive to other people's feelings. They are ill-mannered, uneducated and socially retarded.
2006-11-23 05:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by sunshinesue_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when someone asks you personal questions, you can reply that it was a personal question and you have no obligation to answer it. You don't need to answer personal questions that make you feel uneasy.
Just be true to yourself, you seem to be on a good path right now.
2006-11-23 04:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by mckbrian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of people like that out there. All you can do is counter those questions with a none of your business.
Those people are just plain weird.
2006-11-23 04:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy was a moron. He had no tact. It is nobody's business to ask another person their financial position or their sexual preferences or how often they are active.
2006-11-23 04:52:45 · answer #8 · answered by julez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a good way to deflect that sort of thing is to ask "Why do you ask?"
2006-11-23 04:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 personal question gets a "I really would rather not elaborate". The next personal question gets a "Would you please mind your own fuqin business?"
2006-11-23 04:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋