I've liked this guy for almost 3 months, ever since school started. I'm a freshman, and he's a sophmore. He knows I like him. I think he would be the perfect guy for me. The problem is, nothing is happening. I've never said a word to him and he's never talked to me either. He's in my lunch and one of my classes, but he doesn't sit near me. I don't want to try to talk to him because I don't want him to think that I'm just a stupid freshman that has a crush on him- I really think I would make a good girlfriend for him. But I don't know how to show him him what a great person I am. I'm normally outgoing and really confident but whenever he's around I just kind of freeze and I can't say anything. This has been going on forever please help me!
2006-11-23 04:44:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG that happened to me when i was a freshmen, please talk to him i never had the balls to talk to my crush, even though he liked me and tried talking to me i would freeze,and for 4 school years that went on, so senior year came we graduated and now i will never see him again....dont let that happen, the worst thing he can tell you is no, and if he says no you will know he wasnt meant for you..
2006-11-23 04:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by delicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys cant see anything past tring to impress there freinds and i think if its ment to happen it will happen i know you cant help how you feel but trust me more than likely if he does start to show intrest in you its not going to be the attention your going to want most guys arent as nice as we girls would like for them to be there will be plenty of boys that will fall at your feet so dont worry some day you will meet a guy and he will be the one that cant take is eyes and mind off you and thats the kind of guy you want not one that doesnt even notice your there
2006-11-23 04:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl dont sweat the little thing in life just take care of #1 u and he may just think that anyway freshman. boyfriend and girlfriend stuff just way to much stress for u all in school. i Bet ur fine as wine. just wait for the one that will pick u up and take a drink test all thing
2006-11-23 04:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by Servant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I've never said a word to him and he's never talked to me either." - There's your problem honey. There's got to be SOMETHING you two can talk about. If not, you're screwed and need to move on. You're just a freshman, you have plenty of time to find that "perfect guy." Chill.
2006-11-23 04:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is really hard to but u really should go up to him and talk to him. It is clear that he isn't going to take the first move. Be outgoing, make friends with his friends. Then u and hang with his group without seeming that u r just there for him...when u get to know him well and r good friends...FLIRT!!! Good like with gettin him! :)
2006-11-23 04:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop fretting over it for starters. Then:
1. Study harder than ever before
2. Help someone every day
3. Honor your parents
4. Volunteer a few hours on the weekend at some charity
2006-11-23 04:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just try to start talking to him. dont seem overly crazy about him, just talk. eventually start giving more and more signs and see if he goes for it. and it really helps if you know his number, good night texts really get the point across (but not too early, then its just creepy!!!)
2006-11-23 04:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by nickdog1212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww. I know how you feel except that I don't freeze up like you do.
You should talk to him about it. It could help.
2006-11-23 04:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by crysilentxtears 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a boy in mind and girl in body
2006-11-23 04:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by panchu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this happens to me also, don't be afraid to talk though, b/c although they don't seem like it, guys are a lot like us girls
2006-11-23 04:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by dramaqueen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋