3 dates in 3 months (due to work schedules) We talked at least twice a week and the dates were amazing.
He thought I said I loved him when I didn't and I kind of freaked, but I do care for him. He flirted w. me at work for 10 months. Im a romantic, so I just ignore the feelings of "im starting to think I could love him" but I do care for him. So what is the way to explain it, I care for you, like you alot, youre a great guy, or just keep my mouth shut altogether?
2006-11-23 04:34:49 · 15 answers · asked by roxy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let it alone until the subject comes up again, unless you want to lose him , than tell him how you feel. Most men do not want to classifiy a relationship this early.
2006-11-23 04:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by DEADGONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we as women develope feelings so fast I know, I've been there before, But 3 dates is not enough to start expressing your feelings. Even though he's been giving you signs for 10 months, give this thing more dates and more months to really feel him out. It seems like you guys are not dating enough. Are you totally turned on by him when you are around him? I'm thinking you are, you might be lusting. If you are, slow down and date him for at least 6 months and let him tell you how he feels.
2006-11-23 04:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're really that unsure about the way you feel I wouldn't go bombarding this guy with all that false hope. If he romanced you first he will probably have extremely high hopes for any positive support you give the relationship. Its best to be friendly and act normally until you're sure of your feelings, then you can let him in on what the deal is. If this was totally hopeless and you had no intention of taking this further I would say to let him down easy and drop the bad news so he could get over it as quickly as possible ,but you seem as if you are falling but hesitant to give in to what you really feel.
2006-11-23 04:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay cool and don't say anything yet. Remember "He or She who appears less interested in the relationship controls it." There will come a time that both of you will feel it and say it almost at the same time.
2006-11-23 04:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by speewah2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, DO NOT tell him, unless you want to freak him out. But he sounds like he has a fear of intimacy if he "thought you said you loved him" and it freaked him out. Mouth Shut!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-23 04:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET HIM BE THE FIRST TO SAY ANYTHING ABOUT CARING!!!
Remember most men are afraid of commitment, but if they're not forced into it, it'll go well.
2006-11-23 04:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by DrPepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think express ur feeling...its always good...always.
tell him u care....see 3 dates might not be enough...or 300 dates might not be enough....it depends....so u decide n tell him.i think thats the best solution.
2006-11-23 04:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by bugs bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't necessarily tell him that you care - you prob are expressing that without having to say it....tell him when you feel comfortable in telling him...
2006-11-23 08:11:54 · answer #8 · answered by kristina807 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him in person.
open a dialogue with him on the next date and be honest about how you feel.
2006-11-23 04:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by killer boot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He takes him time doesn't he? You don't want to add any pressure on him if you want to keep him around.
2006-11-23 04:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by RAR24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋