he says he is building a future with me but when i find that his emails to other women are so detail with beautiful words and what i recieve is 'to the point' one liners, and he has told me he was to busy to really write to me.
how should i let him know this really is two face. what can i say to him to really get my point accross and him to get it.
2006-11-23 04:34:31 · 11 answers · asked by wanted 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you serious? i can't believe you're asking this question.
the answer is easy: dump him.
last time I checked there were 3 billion men on this planet. I am sure you can find one that can really make you happy.
what to tell him?
tell him exactly what you said here. i got it. he should get it to.
2006-11-23 04:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by ladra_di_fuoco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but I think your best bet is to move on, and move on quickly. My boyfriend had a friend who he kept e-mailing and he always said that they were just friends. One day, (I know I shouldn't have been snooping), I looked at his sent messages, and he was upset that I couldn't go away for a long weekend with him, and he e-mailed his "friend" asking her to go away with him. He says that he was just upset and that he would never go away with her. We're still together, although our relationship has never been the same, and maybe I was asking for it by snooping, or maybe he just destroyed part of my trust in him. Well, guys seem to use e-mail and the Internet as ways to f*** with women's heads. Either he is going to use e-mail to play games with you or cheat on you, and either ending is not great. I'm in the process of working up to being able to move on, and I think you should too. Good luck, and I hope things work out for the best.
2006-11-23 06:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by isabelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He believes he has you, therefore he doesn't need to romance you. There is something really wrong with a guy who has a need to talk with other women while claiming he's in a committed relationship. Dump his betraying A$$ and move on, you deserve better!
Best of luck to you.
2006-11-23 04:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that the relationship is over,you are too busy exploring your options with all of the new men that have been e-mailing YOU that are so mature and interesting.Move on from an arrogant,heartless jerk who obviously doesn't care about your feelings!!!
2006-11-23 04:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by spicy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what is his point and kick him to the curb with a speeding ticket going only one way.
2006-11-23 04:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl he is playing you he wants to build a future but he don't even have time to email you but he can sure emal other women that's definite break up material!!
2006-11-23 04:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by *PEACE BEGINS WITH A SMILE* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question. my bf e-mails and talks to other women on the internet and he tells me they are Just friends. are they? he says they are. he tells me that he talks to other females and laughs when I question him about them. says I am only making up false accusations. watch out girl I think it is a game.
2006-11-23 04:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by lkwood39 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, but realize that he has the right to e-mail, hang out with, and call, other girls. He probably has a social life! wow. The thought......
2006-11-23 04:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont say anything.... you get the hell out of that relationship...that boy is playing games with you.....
2006-11-23 04:37:13 · answer #9 · answered by Morena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you he really likes you, he wouldn't write to the other girls...he'll write to you!
2006-11-23 04:42:19 · answer #10 · answered by yennay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋