my friend just recently told me shes pregnant and wants me to help keep her parents out of the loop...but yet shes telling everyone else and her parents found out...now shes mad at me..should i dich her at a time like this??
2006-11-23 04:28:54 · 11 answers · asked by lola bulregard 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
She told you and everybody so that it WOULD reach her parents, duhhh. That way she wouldn't have to directly. Weather she knows it or not. As far as ditching her if you have to ask that then you might as well. If she's going to drop a pup the term friend is going to take on a whole new meaning. Are you up for that?
2006-11-23 04:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by olampyone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its a stressful situation for her, so she's probably lashing out at people close to her. If you know first hand the other people she's told then remind her of that and let her know again it wasn't you. It's up to you to decide if you want to remain friends - it'll depend how close you were before and how much support you're willing to give her through this.
2006-11-23 13:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by chicchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is she mad at you for she did the telling!!
dont ditch her but have it out with her and say you told no one, and that her parents must of found out through someone she told. and tell her if she does not trust you or beleive you then you will have to part... bet she wont part with you;. xx
good luck
2006-11-23 12:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by rachie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just tell her that you are not the child parent and she made her own mistake and just be her friend but dont hang around her to much cuz she could get you pregant just tell her that i cant be involed in this cuz you made your own mistake just telll her when ever she is ready tell her parents but if you get caught up in it then you would get in huge trouble but since thats your friend let her make her own mistake but dont get involed
2006-11-23 12:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by Raven C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would be upset....She brought it on herself, going around telling everybody, her parents were bound to find out sooner or later. I wouldn't ditch her, she is your friend and she needs you.
2006-11-23 12:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by Kilee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not a very good friend if she gets angry at you when she was doing the announcing. I would just shy away from her and let her and the father work it out
2006-11-23 12:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is giving out two different messages. Tell her so and get her to sort her head out, otherwise you will ditch her.
2006-11-23 12:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by pica_septima 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wtver u do just dnt throw the baby off the tallahatchie bridge
2006-11-23 12:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, be a friend no matter what, but how long exactly did she plan to hide this before they noticed? Kind of dumb.
2006-11-23 12:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No that would be a bad idea because i think she need you now more than ever.friends stick together
2006-11-23 17:40:56 · answer #10 · answered by browning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋