ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .
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when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone
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this is her latest message
hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!
<3 (name)
2006-11-23 04:24:25 · 10 answers · asked by cbs2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she misses you and still has feelings for you. the fact that she continues to try and contact you even though you have been ignoring her attempts says she cares a lot more than you may know. all signs are pionting to the fact that she is probably sick of transition boy and wants to rekindle some sort of relationship with you. good luck.
2006-11-23 04:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just doing this thinking you still have feelings for her more than likley i wouldnt write call or anything back she didnt want you when she could of had you. forget her there are lots of women out htere that wont play games. bacause if she was trying to get back with you she should at least lose her bf first. and she should respect how you feel.
2006-11-23 12:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue doing what u have been doing dont respond to her she thought the grass was greener on the other side let her stay on that side of the grass that has bad weeds.
2006-11-23 12:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave her alone and contact the police if she comes over. its her fault that u guys broke up. she probably misses u and stuff. just tell her to leave u alone and don't reply back. did u leave her hanging or what?
that may be the problem. good luck
2006-11-23 12:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sense impulse and indecision on her part.
Be careful, she might not have your interests at heart.
She seems to want both of you, and she seems to want you to ask her to come back first!
However, if you go back to her, she could realize that her "chase" is over and dump you again. Tread lightly and keep your eyes open.
2006-11-23 12:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt want to loose you as a friend and wants to keep in touch. and maybe wants to know if you still like her like that? maybe tell her do you want to be friends cause i cant handle just being friends with you i want more than friends but i cant even be friends with you because of-----who ever she is dating. sorry it has to be this way but i just cant...hope that helps good luck
2006-11-23 12:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by Amers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's still with that other guy then she's totally messin with you. Tell her to leave you alone and block her number.
2006-11-23 12:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by eightieschic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously misses u but doesnt have the guts to tell thats she's miserable
2006-11-23 12:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't even entertain this b**ch she is ridiculous don't respond to her and don't see her but make sure she knows that you have moved on and don't have time for her immature games.
2006-11-23 12:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by *PEACE BEGINS WITH A SMILE* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously doesn't know that u can't be friends! why don't you just tell her! it's either that or she still likes u
2006-11-23 12:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by Cy Angst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋