I have been dating this guy for 11 months now. I do love him and he says that he loves me. Him and his wife have been separated for the longest time and was gettinga divorce as soon as she established residency where she moved to. well now he has been there in the last month and a half twice spent the night in her house tells me that he is sleeping on the couch. I dont have a problem with him going up there to see his children at all. And that if I dont want him staying at the house then I need to give him the money for a hotel or to pay for the fuel in his simi. ( he is a truck driver) I give him the benifit of the dought cuz I do trust him. later he sends me a video in the cell phone and and see where he sent her the same video. swears to me that it was an accient. And that she did not get the video. when I called her she was nasty and said that they was together. his family tells me she is lieing. then he tells me that he is going to go and spend a week there for christmas w/ Kids
2006-11-23 04:20:12 · 3 answers · asked by lilredneck74 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It appears you have a lot of doubts and questions about this man. He is certainly sending up enough red flags. You need to love yourself enough to get out now and save yourself a lifetime of wondering.
2006-11-23 04:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out... tell him to leave you alone.
There are always two sides to every story.
Maybe the wife hasn't been told everything you have, you have to wonder if he's been telling her everything is fine and playing you on the side.
Good Luck.
2006-11-23 04:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have yet to hear a happy "I love a married man" story.
Tell him to get a divorce and then he can call you.
2006-11-23 04:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by crct2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋