My friend says guys hate vegetarians, who happen to be very fit athletes and race cars. Why?? I am girly to a point but don't cry when I break a nail. I always have guys asking me out. Why does she say this?? Is it true??
I am also 3rd in my class.(there are over 2,000 others) she's says guys hate smart girls. WHY???
If she's right then why do guys always ask me out?? I also surf, play lax, snoboard, do gymnastics, and swim.
Is it true guys hate girls who don't fit in to all the stereo-types that cheerleaders have??
She says guys only date girls for SEX. Is she right?? Why??
2006-11-23 04:07:33 · 20 answers · asked by Sakura 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
answer me this:
Do guys only want sex from a girl and leave her.
2006-11-23 04:11:00 · update #1
She says guys hate girls like me so I should change.
2006-11-23 04:11:58 · update #2
i hate sterotype girls ur friends just jealos
how do u find time to do all this u sound
amazing and should not listen to ur friend
2006-11-23 04:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by ningamdo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
nope...she's not right, or at least not right about the "good" guys.
I married my wife 11 years ago when we were both very young. I married her because she was different, because she was smart,a dn because she didn't cry over a broken nail. The problem is that high school girls don't have the benefit of time that older women do. When you get out of high school and into college you will see that in fact it is the smart girls who get all the dates! No guy wants to be with a girl who can't hold her own in conversation, and whileyes, sex is an important part of a loving relationship it is there only as a way for two mature people to grow closer together and express their love in a physical manifestation.
I think you have a lot to look forward to. While I know that it does not improve your situation right this minute, you sound like you will have a very happy life with many different chances at finding a variety of caring and loving mates.
So hang in there...I rpmise, it gets much better as maturity kicks in!
2006-11-23 12:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by bmolin1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
None of that is true, not with all guys atleast...whether or not your a vegetarian should have nothing to do with dating at all,and i would say most guys that make lower grades feel threatened when a woman makes better decisions and better grades.Sex is on everyones mind at some point or other but guys tend to think about it more often,there are guys who are just trying to get into a relationship for a piece of *** but theres alot of guys that arn't like that.as far as the stereotype,No alot of guys are physically attracted to that type of girl but they dont hate anyone who isnt a cheerleader...theres always good guys as well as bad just be carefull.
2006-11-23 12:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by John L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. No, you shouldn't change.
2. She says that guys don't like successful women because she is jealous and unable to compete with you.
3. Yes, there are some guys who only date girls for sex. Also, there are some girls who only date guys for sex. That means you may have trouble finding a guy who is right for you. In fact, almost everyone has trouble finding a lover who is just right, but eventually most folks manage somehow.
2006-11-24 21:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should not ask your friends for advice about your love life. As far as your eating habits go, good for you; just don't try to push your beliefs on your guy friends. I love smart, athletic, pretty girls, that is why I married one.
Just be picky about who you date, not all guys are after sex. Don't settle for some dirt bag.
2006-11-23 12:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by novo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately guys go for whats easiest, thought very sad... it's true.
There are guys out there, who want a girl whom isn't easy, isn't a stereo type and has a brain, someone who can hold an intelligent conversation.
Hope this helps.
2006-11-23 12:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy is different, so different guys like different types of girls, you can't generalize about what kind of girls guys like.
But, about the sex thing... YES ultimately that's why guys date girls, to have sex with them.
That's the whole point of dating for guys - if you're nice enough to a girl, hopefully you will be able to persuade her to have sex with you.
2006-11-23 12:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No!!! She is so wrong!!! She is jealous and wants to pull you into her low self esteem world.
Go find some friends, both girl and boy who will encourage and respect you.
Continue to do good and school and start making better choices of who to associate with.
2006-11-23 12:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not in particiular. Usally a boy makes out again again agin and then after an age point wants to get engaged . after marriage he asks 4 sex then they MIGHT leeve.
2006-11-23 12:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
frist off you have been talking to people who know NOTHING about relationships. in my opion they sound sexist and controling. So listen up!!!!!! you are not wrong they are if they want to be controled and be a HOE let them do what you think is right and find out what u want. dont let other control u.
2006-11-23 12:12:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋